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So you'd like to make a good impression on a first date...

So you’d like to make a good impression on a first date…

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, making a good impression during a first date isn’t about picking the fanciest restaurant as your venue and bringing the most expensive gifts.

Or perhaps following the silly “tricks” so-called dating gurus are saying like putting on loud clothes as well as acting obnoxious to “establish” an alpha male presence.

There are actually simple ways to help you pull off just that and you’ll find out what they are when you follow along…

A well-planned outfit counts a lot.

Let’s kick things off with something that some guys seem to overlook when they take a woman out on a date. The outfit you pick can easily make or break your chances at making a good impression with her.

See, women are visual creatures who tend to make their first impressions on a guy based on their looks. So if you show up on a first date like you just got out of bed, things won’t go as you expected.

It’s not how fancy you look, too. As long as you pick clean clothes and shoes, you’re already on the right track.

Grooming is key.

It’s not just the visual factor that you should keep an eye on. How you smell is also an essential element when you’re looking to make a good impression during a first date.

So make it a point to take a long and meticulous shower before the big event. Don’t crimp up on the soap and deodorant, too.

(Here are a few useful grooming tips that you need to have in your checklist to help you really get the job done.)

Talk about trivial things.

A lot of men believe that if you strike up a conversation with the most complicated subject you can think of, the woman you’re out on a date with will think that you’re smart and likable.

However, only the opposite will happen when you do this. Make it a point to talk about trivial stuff like her favorite movie, the name of her first pet or perhaps her favorite flower instead.

Sure they may sound rather simple, but they can easily get a meaningful conversation going and you can establish a connection with her much easier.

Act like a gentleman.

Remember that chivalry is not dead and acting like a gentleman is sure to boost your chances of acing a first date.

Pull up chairs for your date. Open doors for her. Lend her your jacket when the weather is nippy. I know some guys think it’s corny, but it’s definitely going to work.

 

Here are a few tips that will help you prevent premature ejaculation easily...

Here are a few tips that will help you prevent premature ejaculation easily…

When it comes to sex, lasting for as long as you can between the sheets is the top priority to really give your lover the satisfaction she wants.

However, you’re noticing that you just seem to reach the Big O and ejaculate sooner than usual nowadays.

This doesn’t mean that you’ll have to put up with this problem forever though. Here are a few useful tricks that can help you easily extend your bedroom playing time…

Don’t worry too much about coming too soon.

Did you know that your thoughts play a key role in what your body does during a specific situation? This includes preventing premature ejaculation during sex.

If you think that you’re going to reach the point of no return sooner than you should, you’re going to give your body the notion that it should.

Keep in mind to think that you’ll last for as long as you want during sex and you will be surprised how much longer the action in bed becomes.

Just imagine how pleasurable that would be for the both of you.

Focus more on pleasuring your partner.

Premature ejaculation is basically caused by experiencing too much penile sensation in a short period of time.

Prevent this from happening by focusing more on her pleasure instead of yours by giving her a bout of oral sex she won’t forget anytime soon or work your magic on her erogenous zones.

Concentrate on her pleasure more and you’ll be keeping at it for as long as you want.

(Here are a few oral sex pointers that you need to have in your checklist, too.)

Go slow and easy.

Remember what I told you earlier about penile stimulation and premature ejaculation?

Going too fast as soon as you get the opportunity to sexually penetrate your partner will simply lead to disaster.

Make it a point to go slow and easy instead of going full speed ahead during the action. Sure the temptation is great to amp things up, but you’ll find it tricky to control yourself while at it.

And when you lose control, you will go off sooner than you’d like to.

Let her call the shots.

Your lover is going to experience all the sexual pleasure she wants when you’re at it in bed if you let her run the show.

And when she gets all the pleasure she wants, she will reach orgasm (or two) sooner than usual,

Since your partner is calling the shots, you’ll get to do more than just thrust, which will stave off premature ejaculation.

These tips will help you convince her to try anal sex...

These tips will help you convince her to try anal sex…

I’m pretty sure that anal sex is one of the things that’s in your lovemaking bucket list.

However, the only thing that’s keeping you from actually trying it the next time things are heating up between the sheets is your lover.

No matter what you do, you just can’t convince her to give it a go.

This doesn’t mean that you should already give up on your efforts though. Here are a few simple pointers that can boost your chances of making her say yes to anal sex…

Talk to your lover about anal sex outside of the bedroom.

A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to sweet talk their partners into trying anal sex when they are already in bed.

If you’re still finding it tricky to convince your lover to give anal action a try, change up your tactics and talk about anal sex with her when you’re having a casual conversation.

Apart from helping take away the pressure off the whole thing, she won’t feel as anxious or worried when you do it in bed.

Let her call the shots.

Sure you may be the one directing the action when you and your lover are already at it in the bedroom, but it’s important that you give her full bedroom authority if you want her to try anal sex.

This is because when your partner is calling the shots during lovemaking, she will feel more empowered.

And when she’s more empowered, she will feel more adventurous in trying new stuff when you’re at it. This includes anal sex.

Just think about how this can take your lovemaking sessions to a whole new level.

Don’t be bossy about it.

Convincing your lover to try anal sex is just like bargaining for a great deal.

You sure won’t pull the whole thing off if you are making your partner feel that trying it would just be for your pleasure.

Talk to her about anal sex as gently as you can or else you will botch it up even before you really got started.

If she says no, don’t feel bad about it. There’s always a next time to do it again.

Remind her that it’s not going to be a bad experience.

If your partner is anything like most women, chances are she thinks anal sex is taboo.

When you’re trying to convince her about trying anal sex, always remind her that it’s going to be a positive experience to condition her mentally that everything is alright when you do try it.

Here's why she's not that excited to go down on you nowadays...

Here’s why she’s not that excited to go down on you nowadays…

When it comes to lovemaking, getting a BJ from your lover is definitely a key item on your sexual checklist.

But the thing is you’re noticing that she is not that eager to explore south of your border anymore these days.

This doesn’t mean that you won’t be getting oral sex from your partner again though.

There’s just a very big possibility that you’re making a few mistakes that prevents her from going down on you.

Make sure you read on to learn what these mistakes are to fix this problem in no time…

You boss her about giving you oral attention.

It’s very important that your partner is totally sexually aroused before she will start exploring your nether regions for some oral action.

(Here is a useful tip to really get her sexual arousal going in the bedroom.)

And she won’t be able to reach that point when she is feeling that you’re forcing her to do something she doesn’t like or perhaps you’re giving her the notion that you are already bossing her around.

Keep in mind that you have to ask her about giving you oral sex as gently and tenderly as you can or else you’ll just ruin her mood while at it.

You neglect your hygiene.

How you look and smell play key roles when it comes to convincing your lover to give you a blowjob.

Come to think of it. Put yourself in her shoes. Would you still like to pleasure her orally if she doesn’t smell that nice down there? Well, there’s your answer.

Keep in mind to take regular showers and give your shrubbery down there a proper trim from time to time to prevent them from going haywire.

Remember to keep your oral hygiene up to par, too, since bad teeth and gums can easily set off problems in the bedroom.

You don’t give her amazing oral sex.

Oral sex is all about give and take.

You have to give your lover amazing oral action to make her feel that she needs to pay back the favor when you two are getting at it between the sheets.

Make the experience as awesome as you can when you give her oral sex and you will be surprised how eager she is when you ask her to do the same to you.

(Now here’s an oral sex trick that will surely knock her socks off.)