If you’re anything like most guys, acing a date is the number one item on your checklist when it comes to taking a woman out.
However, there is one thing that really disappoints me when checking out what some so-called “dating gurus” are saying on how to pull off just that.
These supposedly gurus claim that acing a date basically involves presenting yourself as the alpha male. They say that doing this is as simple as wearing loud clothes and talking brashly to the woman you’re out with.
Come to think of it. If you put yourself in a woman’s place and some guy treats you like this, would you find consider him as a nice date? I don’t think so, too.
However, I learned a few very useful dating tips during my extensive research into the female psychology and I’d like to share them with you…
Grooming is essential.
I’m pretty sure you’ve heard this again and again, but making it a point to keep a close eye on your grooming is one of the important things you need to do during a date.
This is because women make their very first impressions on the guy they’re out with on a visual level. If they think you look sloppy, it will be very tricky to get your date on the right track like you planned.
(Here are some key grooming pointers you should remember to really wow your date on the big day or night.)
Go the extra mile on planning your date.
Planning your date isn’t just about picking a venue and meeting the woman you’re taking out there.
If you really want to impress her, make it a point to go the extra mile on planning the details of your date. You can start by asking her where she’d like to have it, as well as the food and drink that she prefers.
If you still can’t decide where to have your date, one smart idea is to go for her favorite hangout.
Don’t try to act cool.
Now while it is important to impress your date, overdoing the whole thing will simply lead to disaster. Trying hard to act cool will only make her feel stressed and annoyed.
Just be as natural as you can.
Doing this isn’t as complicated as you may think, too. Talk to her about trivial things. Don’t sell yourself too hard by talking about politics and other potentially volatile subjects.
Always remember that your ultimate goal is making an emotional connection with your date and you’ll be good to go.