When it comes to sex, I’m pretty sure that the number one item on your checklist is lasting for as long as you can.
Besides getting as much sexual pleasure as possible during the action, keeping clear from premature ejaculation also helps boost your chances of making your lover come…even again and again if you play your cards right.
But the thing is you don’t have to reach for pills, lotions and other artificial stuff that claim to extend your bedroom playing time to pull this off, unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” say.
Here are a few simple (and natural) pointers that are sure to help you last longer the next time things get hot between the sheets…
Now while it is true that you can’t help but feel excited when you and your lover are already getting at it in bed, allowing yourself to get carried away encourages your body to produce and release more and more feel-good hormones.
The more of these hormones are let loose inside your body, the more sexually aroused you become. The more sexually aroused you become, the faster your ejaculatory response will kick in during lovemaking.
And when this happens, you’re simply going to pop too soon before you’ve even really started. Keep in mind to relax while at it and you’ll be just fine.
Go slow and easy.
The number one reason why a lot of guys tend to come too quickly in the bedroom is they get fast and furious the moment they sexually penetrate their partner.
Now while I am not saying that you shouldn’t take things up a notch during sex by thrusting faster, make it a point to create a rhythm to keep yourself from ejaculating prematurely. Combining slow and fast thrusts is one way to do this.
You can experiment with the combination that you feel really comfortable with, too.
Have constant oral sex breaks.
Keep in mind to go down on your lover from time to time during sex. Apart from intensifying the sensations your partner experiences during lovemaking, it also helps “reset” your sexual arousal, preventing you from popping too soon.
However, there are a few key tips that you should remember when giving your lover oral sex to really make it amazing for her.
One is not going straight away to her clitoris the moment you get the chance to pleasure her orally. Two is preventing your teeth from making contact with the clitoris since it can be painful for your partner.