4 First Date Pointers That You Need To Keep In Mind

Acing a date isn't something that just happens. Here are a few pointers on how to make it happen.

Acing a first date isn’t something that just happens. Here are a few pointers on how to make it happen.

Acing a first date is something that you work on. Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” seem to be saying these days, it doesn’t just happen accidentally because of sheer luck.

However, I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there are a few key factors that can help boost your chances of making a date successful. Make sure you follow along to find out what they are…

Put extra effort in planning your date.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are your idea of planning a date only involves picking a nice restaurant and you’re already all set. However, you have to do more than that if you’d like to really impress the woman you’re going out with.

Make it a point to go the extra mile and know certain things about your date like her preferences in food and drink, the music she listens to and the activities that she likes doing. Now integrate all these information into the date you’re planning.

Just imagine how much she’ll be impressed the moment you kick things off.

Plan your outfit carefully.

A woman is a basically a visual person. Most of her impression about you will come from what you wear on your date. If you show up in style, she will tend to see you in a positive light. If your getup is horrible, well…you get the idea.

Keep in mind not to simply grab what you wear on a date at the last minute. Make sure you try on a few test outfits to see which one is the best.

Now while there’s nothing wrong with accessorizing, just remember not to overdo it or else you’ll end up giving her the notion that you’re trying too hard to impress her.

Break the ice with trivial subjects

Engaging your date in a meaningful conversation has a key role in acing it. Unlike what a lot of guys think, your chances of impressing her aren’t in how complicated the topics you’ll touch on will be.

It’s rather in how simple they will be. Make sure you break the ice with trivial subjects. Ask her what the name of her first pet is or the title of her favorite movie, instead of outlining the new really technical computer program you just got.

You’ll be surprised how the conversation will go.

Listen intently.

When it comes to acing a date, making a connection with the woman you’re out with is a priority. Unless you make this connection, there’s a risk that you won’t convince her to go on date number two.

Keep in mind to listen to her intently when the conversation is already in swing. This makes her feel that you are really interested in her, releasing positive hormones. As a bonus, you will also pick up a lot of stuff you can use to dazzle her even more while at it.

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