Getting a woman really sexually aroused not only guarantees that the pleasure she experiences during lovemaking will be mind-blowing, but also makes it easier for her to achieve an orgasm.
Now while you may already be quite familiar with the things that never fail to get your lover going between the sheets, there are also mistakes that can ruin her sexual mood in no time.
So if you’re looking to really get her freak on the next time you’re feeling frisky, make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are…
You don’t clean your bedroom.
I know this sounds very surprising, but not giving your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it really deserves can greatly affect your lover’s sexual arousal when you two are getting at it.
This is because women need to be very relaxed to reach their sexual arousal peak. Unless they get to this point, there is a chance that their sexual arousal won’t be that intense. When her sexual arousal isn’t that intense, she will have a difficult time getting an orgasm, too.
And one of the biggest ways you can ruin a woman’s relaxation is giving her an eyeful of dust and clutter. Making cleaning and organizing a mainstay in your regular schedule will easily do the trick.
You don’t let her decide how your sex session will play out.
Although your lover tends to be submissive when things get steamy in bed, giving her the chance to call the shots during sex is a very exciting experience for her to the point of taking her sexual arousal off the charts.
Besides making your partner feel that you value her sexual ideas, allowing her to be the boss in the bedroom also encourages her to become more sexually adventurous while at it. How’s that for two for two?
You don’t ask her what she wants
Come to think of it, your lover basically knows all the best stuff that will get her going in bed. Just imagine what you’re missing out if you don’t ask her to guide you what she wants during sex.
Simply think about how easily she’ll reach the Big O when you do this as well.
Whether it’s the way you kiss or perhaps the technique you use when you go down on your partner, you’re definitely going to see a significant change in her sexual arousal when you consult her first before you turn up the heat in the bedroom.