If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that getting a blowjob from your lover is one of the things that you look forward to during sex.
However, you’re noticing that your partner is not that eager to go down on you like she used to nowadays.
This doesn’t mean that you should forever cross off blowjobs from your sexual checklist though. Chances are you’re just making a few simple mistakes that keep your lover from going south of your border.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
You don’t give her oral sex.
One of the biggest reasons why a lot of women tend to steer clear of oral sex is they tend to feel that they are on the losing end of the deal…just because you’re not giving them adequate attention down there.
This gives her the notion that you’re only in it for your own satisfaction, which can somewhat ruin her sexual mood one way or another.
Make it a point to pleasure your lover down there when things get hot between the sheets to make her feel that oral sex is a two-way street. Don’t do a sloppy job while you’re at it, too, since this can significantly affect the pleasure levels that you will give her.
You don’t keep an eye on your grooming.
If you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, I’m sure you already came across my posts on the importance of grooming.
However, making sure that your grooming is in tiptop shape isn’t just reserved for dates and other social events. Not keeping a close eye on it also has an effect on your lover’s willingness to give you oral sex.
Come to think of it. If it looks like a jungle down there or perhaps things smell funky, do you think she’ll be happy to pleasure you with her mouth? Well, you already know the answer.
Making sure that you give your private area a careful trim from time to time and a nice scrubbing when you take a shower will already do the trick.
You think of oral sex as a burden.
I know this sounds surprising, but how you view oral sex has a very big effect on the way you do it.
If you think that it’s one of the most pleasurable techniques that can give your lover the sexual satisfaction she wants, then you’ll do it nicely. However, when you think it’s a burden, you’ll only botch the whole thing up.
Now imagine if that’s your mindset. Do you think you’re going to give her oral sex pleasure when you go down on her? That will easily make her say “pass” when you ask her to explore your nether regions.