While I was checking out my emails this morning, I received a very interesting message from Vic, a long-time HowToLastLongInBed.com reader.
Vic asks if there’s a way to bring back his lover’s interest in oral sex once more. He noticed that she isn’t that excited any longer when he goes down on her. He’s also having trouble making her reach the Big O while at it these days.
Well, as I see it, perhaps Vic needs a bit of improvement in the oral sex department. And I may have picked up a few useful things during my extensive research into the female sexuality that may help him pull off just that.
Make sure you follow along to find out the oral sex mistakes that you should remember to keep clear of the next time you start exploring south of her border…
Don’t think of it as a burden.
A lot of guys view oral sex as something more of a burden instead of a technique that can knock their lovers’ socks off when things get extra steamy between the sheets.
Sure this may not seem like a lot, but this mindset has a significant effect on how you’re going to get the job done. As it turns out, the brain sees this as something stressful and stimulates the endocrine glands to let loose stress hormones.
And when this happens, you’ll just feel rather anxious and impatient when you do it. Depending on how much stress hormones your body will produce, there’s even a chance that you’ll find it tricky to rise up to the occasion or keep a strong erection while at it.
Just think of it as a way to ensure that your partner is going to have an orgasm. One after another if you do oral sex properly, too.
Don’t make a beeline for the clitoris as soon as you can.
When it comes to oral sex, I’m pretty sure stimulating the clitoris is on top of your checklist. However, simply going straight to the clitoris as soon as you get the chance is the worst way to do it.
This is because it will only make her feel sore down there. You have to give time for this nerve ending-packed organ to prep up first before it can release the pleasurable sensations it is designed to produce.
Pulling this off isn’t that complicated, too. You just have to warm up your lover in bed and you’re sure to be on the right track in no time.