Going off too soon during lovemaking is perhaps one of the most frustrating things that can happen to you.
Not mentioning the disappointment your partner will go through as well.
However, you don’t have to get your hands on stuff like creams, pills and other artificial stuff that a lot of so-called “sex experts” are recommending nowadays to pull off just that.
There’s a big chance that you’re simply making a few mistakes that trigger premature ejaculation.
Make sure you read on to find out what they are and last longer the next time things get hot between the sheets…
You’re thinking too much about coming quickly.
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, it’s not just penile stimulation alone that sets off your body to achieve orgasm and make you ejaculate.
Interestingly, the brain also plays a key role in the overall process, particularly what you’re thinking about.
It fires up the endocrine system to let loose hormones during sexual arousal that prep up the body for a lovemaking session. However, something happens when you become preoccupied with coming too soon while you and your partner are at it.
The brain releases stress hormones that only speed things up during sex, which also make you come sooner. So better keep in mind to relax and enjoy the show or else you’ll go off too quickly.
You don’t focus on her pleasure.
The more your erogenous zones are stimulated, the more the brain is inclined to put your body in orgasm mode and make you ejaculate.
One of the reasons why you’re experiencing premature ejaculation these days is you’re not giving enough attention to your lover’s pleasure. If you simply focus on your side of things, chances are you’ll find yourself coming all of a sudden.
The next time you and your partner are getting things extra steamy between the sheets, make it a point to focus on her pleasure.
Apart from preventing yourself from coming too soon, you’re definitely going to give your lover an experience she won’t forget easily in the process.
You don’t take it slow and easy.
One mistake most men make is taking things fast and furious as soon as the action starts.
And if you’re doing that, chances are you will come quicker than you’d like to during lovemaking.
Just remember that no matter how tempted you are to go full speed ahead, keep in mind that doing that will easily ruin the experience because you’ll pop unexpectedly.