If you’ve been following my posts on HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, you probably came across my emphasis on the trickiness of getting a woman ready for a sex session.
Sometimes prepping up your lover for action between the sheets can take place almost immediately. However, there will be also instances where she’ll have a hard time getting wet and wild.
And here are a few easy tricks you need to keep in mind to really get her going in the bedroom when you’re feeling frisky…
Proper grooming is essential.
I am sure you hear this a lot, but making it a point to look and smell nice before you begin the action is a key factor when it comes to getting your lover sufficiently lubricated. If she thinks you stink, well, you’re definitely going to have a hard time pulling off the job.
Work her mentally first.
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, women need more than just a lot of stimulation on her physical erogenous zones to kick off her sexual arousal.
No matter how well you stimulate her favorite sexy spots or zero in on the erogenous zones she didn’t know she had, your partner won’t be getting in the mood anytime soon if you don’t excite her mentally while at it.
Apart from giving her a ring out of the blue and describing the things you’ll do to her during lovemaking, you can also text a preview of the sexy stuff you have in mind.
Stimulate her as softly as you can.
I learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that the softest stimulation can potentially produce the most sensual impact if done in the right setting. Do that and she’ll get wet easily.
Use your fingertips to concentrate on her erogenous zones. Take things as slow and easy as soon as you can, too. Lick and kiss tenderly as you go along. You can even nibble on her sexy bits for full effect.
Get her in the dark. Literally.
Blindfolding your partner when you’d like to heat things up in bed takes her senses off the charts.
This is because her mind gets into overdrive when her eyes are covered. Your lover will start imagining things, which will make even the slightest touch or sensation feel really amazing. Her brain is basically doing all the work in the process.
And that leaves you focusing on more important stuff.