Let me get this straight…
There is a very big difference between the sexual arousal of a man and a woman. Unlike guys that can get ready for a bout of lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it to really get in the mood.
Unless your lover is properly eased into it, chances are she’s either going to find it tricky to get sufficiently wet down there or perhaps she won’t enjoy the experience at all even if you put you’re A-game into it.
However, I’ve discovered a few simple tricks that can help you fire her up in the bedroom faster. So make sure you read on to find out how to turn up the heat quicker the next time you want to get her in the mood…
Prep up meticulously.
I’ll kick things off with something that a lot of guys seem to overlook. Did you know that making it a point to keep a close eye on your hygiene can help speed up your partner’s sexual arousal?
This is because women are very particular with grooming. Unless they think that you look and smell, they won’t be able to get frisky between the sheets no matter how hard you try.
Keep in mind to take regular showers, use deodorant, wear clean clothes and underwear as well as give your gums and teeth the TLC they deserve. Making it a point to get rid of excess facial hair also helps a lot.
One of the things that I learned while researching extensively into the female sexuality is a woman’s brain tends to become more excited for lovemaking if it’s exposed to quick yet varying degrees of stimulation during foreplay.
You can start off with a bit of breast stimulation here and a little clitoral action there. Build up the intensity of your kissing, caressing or perhaps licking little by little and then start over again. You’ll be surprised that it’s your lover who will tell you to take things up a notch sooner or later.
This is also one of the reasons why you should always take things slow and easy during sex.
Ask her what she wants.
One of the biggest mistakes that a lot of men make when it comes to sex is thinking that they already know what their partners want in the bedroom. The next time you two start getting frisky, ask her what really gets her going between the sheets.
You’ll be amazed how quick she will get sexually aroused when you do this.