I’m quite sure that you’d like to really get the job done with flying colors when it comes to taking a woman out for a date.
And I am really disappointed with what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” tell guys when acing a date is concerned…
They say that not only there are certain words you can use to make your date get the hots for you almost instantly, there are also fashion options you can go for to really hook her in. It’s all really quite ridiculous if you ask me…or any woman out there.
However, there are actually mistakes that you should keep in mind if you’d like to dazzle a woman during your date. Make sure you follow along to find out what they are…
Don’t overdo it on the compliments.
Sure complimenting your date is a nice way to make her feel you appreciate her, but doing it like crazy already gives her the opposite notion.
She will just think that you are pulling her leg and when this happens, stress hormones get in the picture, which will only make her feel anxious and impatient. Not a good way to kick off a date, don’t you think?
Don’t take listening to her when she’s talking for granted.
Did you know that listening to a woman intently helps you build an emotional connection with her? This is because she will feel that you are really interested in her and your actions are genuine.
As an added bonus, apart from making her like you, you can also catch a thing or two that you can use to dazzle her even more sooner or later. Interestingly, even the most trivial of things like her favorite book or movie can make her feel more comfortable around you.
That can be your stepping stone to another date. How cool is that?
Never sound desperate.
Don’t kick off your date by saying how long you’ve been looking for a girlfriend or perhaps you still haven’t found your ideal partner since this will only make you look desperate.
Not mentioning it will also make your date feel really awkward. Wait until she initiates a discussion about relationships and similar stuff. Apart from making you look desperate for a relationship, you will also make her feel that you’re creepy.
Never talk about how many kids you want or what your wedding plans are in the future while you’re at it as well.