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So she's not into oral sex anymore...

So she’s not into oral sex anymore…

Stimulating your lover orally is definitely one way to get her off when things get hot and heavy in the bedroom. The thing is, however, she seems not that excited anymore when you start exploring south of her border when the both of you get frisky.

This isn’t the time to get depressed and decide to stop giving her oral sex altogether though. You only have to keep the following useful tips in mind to really give her a mind-blowing experience she won’t forget anytime soon…

Clean your bedroom.

Now while this sounds rather far from giving your lover oral sex satisfaction, making sure your bedroom is spic and span is a priority if you’d like her to feel so. This is because a woman can’t fully enjoy sex if she isn’t totally relaxed.

And one of the things that really irk a woman and get her stressing out in no time at all? A messy bedroom.

Pulling this off isn’t quite tricky at all unlike what most guys think. You only have to make your bed when you get up, arrange stuff that have gone askew and do a bit of cleaning every week. Not so complicated now, isn’t it?

Start things slow and easy.

Unlike what porn movies show you, making a beeline for your lover’s genitals and start stimulating them like there’s no tomorrow is just simply going to annoy her. There’s even a possibility that she will find it extremely uncomfortable as well.

She’ll also have the notion that you’re getting impatient to get things done during this time. And that easily ruins the mood for her in almost no time.

Remember to take things slow and easy when you go down on your lover to make sure things will go smoothly. Don’t be too rough on your stimulation while at it, too. Just take things up a notch when your partner says so.

Don’t worry. She will tell you.

Don’t focus on one area only.

One big mistake a lot of men do during oral sex is concentrating on one area only, like the clitoris or the vagina. Stimulating your lover orally isn’t just limited to one part only. You can even pleasure her breasts and other erogenous zones while at it, too.

Moreover, you can even mix things up by stimulating her genitals and then moving up to her breasts and upper erogenous zones while you’re getting in action. Just imagine the sensations she will feel when you do this.

You're sure to start exercising when you check this out...

You’re sure to start exercising when you check this out…

If you’re anything like most men, giving your lover an awesome time when things get hot and heavy between the sheets is definitely the biggest priority in your sexual checklist. However, there is a big chance you won’t do just that if you’re not exercising regularly.

Now while this may sound surprising, not having exercise in your regular schedule can easily make your sexual performance dip down.

So if you’re looking to wow your lover always when you two get frisky, here are a few reasons that will make your sex sessions really better if you make it a habit to sweat it out at least 15 minutes every day…

It will help build your body’s natural energy levels.

At its simplest, you are basically improving your system’s ability to store energy when you go for a jog or take your bike out for a spin in a frequent basis. This is mainly because you’re strengthening vital organs like the heart and lungs that play key roles when it comes to keeping you going in the bedroom.

When these vital organs aren’t kept in shape, chances are you’re going to feel quite exhausted before you’ve really started when you and your lover get in action between the sheets. The healthier these vital organs are…well, you can expect you won’t be feeling tired anytime soon when you should be fired up.

It will boost your circulation.

Blood is one of the major players when lovemaking is concerned. Apart from being one of the factors that can give you a stable erection, it also intensifies the pleasurable sensations that you experience when your erogenous zones are stimulated.

So just imagine what will happen if your circulation isn’t up to par. It’s either you’ll end up getting really tired before you get your A-game going or you won’t get a strong erection while at it.

There’s no need to reach for pills and other artificial stuff that promise to do just that though. You only need to start a regular exercise regimen. Simply making it a habit to sweat it out improves your blood circulation sooner than you think.

It will improve your production of mood-altering hormones.

Feel-good hormones like serotonin and oxytocin are essential when enjoying sex is concerned. Besides making it possible to get you hard and keep you that way, they also turn the sensitivity levels of your skin through the roof when you are sexually aroused.

And one way to boost your body’s ability to let loose mood-altering hormones when you and your lover want to get in action? Exercise. How about integrating it in your schedule and surprise your partner the next time things get steamy in the bedroom?

Your chances of reeling her in go higher if you avoid these dating mistakes...

Your chances of reeling her in go higher if you avoid these dating mistakes…

I’m really disappointed at so-called “dating gurus” who tell guys that acing dates is all about knowing a few tricks that supposedly make women more attracted to you.

The say that apart from dressing outrageously to get a woman’s attention and keep her engaged, having a few select words to mix in your conversation also takes your chances of pulling it off easily.

In my years of extensively researching into the female psychology, I didn’t come across such things even a single time. What I did stumble upon though was a few mistakes that can make your date with a woman you like go south in no time.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Not focusing your entire attention on her.

A woman expects that your full attention should be on her on a date. If she thinks that you’re distracted or perhaps not concentrating on her fully, chances are your date won’t turn out like you’ve expected. This applies to all dates, not just the first one.

Now while you may think that you’re concentrating all your attention on the woman you’re out with during a date, you may be doing a few things that can give her the notion that you are not giving her the attention that she deserves.

And one of these things is checking your phone most of the time. This makes your date feel that you aren’t that interested in her. Make it a point to put off those texts, calls including status posts and tweets and you’re on the right track.

Not listening to her intently.

When it comes to making a woman like you, it isn’t about luck or using magic words. It’s actually about establishing an emotional connection with her. And doing just that involves making her feel that you’re fun to be with and she can trust you.

Sure that may sound rather tricky, but you can pull it off by listening to her intently when you are having a discussion. Listening is a big deal to women and if she feels that you’re all ears when she talks, you’re good to go.

Plus, you can learn a lot of things about the woman you’re out with that you can use to dazzle her even more.

Not planning your date properly.

Although being spontaneous is key when it comes to making a date unforgettable, keeping in mind to plan a few important things is sure to seal the deal.

Examples of things you should plan include the venue of your date, the foods you will munch on, the drinks you’ll enjoy as well as the activities that you will do during your date. This doesn’t just make your date more exciting, but also give the woman you’re out with the notion that you’re a responsible guy.

So do you have these erection-sapping habits?

So do you have these erection-sapping habits?

When it comes to lovemaking, I’m sure getting rock hard and staying that way is your top priority to really give your partner an amazing experience between the sheets…

However, did you know that you already have a few seemingly innocent habits that can make your erections weak in the long run?

Now while I don’t mean to scare you, make sure you read on to find out what these are so you can maintain your erections as strong as ever without a hitch.

You sit for very long periods of time.

Did you know that habitually sitting down for a very long time has the same effect on your body as smoking a couple of packs of cigarettes every day? I know this sounds odd right now, but this is attributed to it being a major contributor to spiking blood pressure levels.

Sitting for two to three hours at a time has also been seen as one of the risk factors of raising your chances of developing type 2 diabetes in the long run. You can easily fix this by starting a regular and vigorous exercise regimen like going on a quick jog or biking.

You don’t take care of your teeth and gums like you should.

Although it’s pretty normal to forget giving your teeth a brush or neglecting to floss your gums once or twice, deliberately taking it out of your daily schedule is sure going to hit your erections sooner or later.

This is because not giving your oral health the TLC it truly deserves promotes the build-up of bad bacteria that can easily wreak havoc when given the chance to make their way inside the blood vessels that line the mouth and jaws.

And when that happens, blood can have a tough time getting to where they’re supposed to during sexual arousal and make getting stale erections an issue.

You drink sodas and similar drinks more than you drink water.

Keeping and staying ideally hydrated is a very significant factor when it comes to getting strong erections. Keeping in mind to down at least six to eight glasses of water a day already ensures that you won’t be having a problem in that department.

Aside from raising your risks of having tooth decay and oral health issues, indulging in sodas and similar sweet drinks more than you ought to can also lead to illnesses that can result to erectile dysfunction.