Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, giving your lover an unforgettable time when you are giving her oral sex isn’t just about making a beeline for her genitals and stimulating them as fast as possible.
There are actually a few key things to keep in mind to really make the experience amazing for your partner. So if you’re looking to really wow her the next time you get down to business, here are some tips to help you pull off just that easily…
Get her in the mood first.
Sure stimulating her nether regions may be one of the most pleasurable experiences a woman can go through when things get hot in the bedroom, but you won’t be able to give her just that during oral sex if she isn’t totally in the mood for lovemaking.
Getting in the mood means her brain is ideally producing and releasing mood-altering hormones her body needs to prep up for lovemaking. These hormones basically set off the changes in her system to make sex pleasurable for her.
This can be achieved by kissing her passionately, stimulating her erogenous zones and using mental images like sending her naughty messages on her email or cellphone to make her feel sexy. Play your cards right and she will be in the mood sooner than you think.
Easy does it.
Now while the female body is really responsive when it comes to sexual arousal, a woman’s erogenous zones, particularly the clitoris, need time to get ready before they can be stimulated and produce pleasurable sensations.
If you stimulate these erogenous zones before they are completely ready, they will just feel tender and raw, which goes to say that she won’t be feeling good anytime soon when you do this.
Here’s a cool tip though. You can easily know if the clitoris is ready for stimulation if it swells up noticeably. As for the vagina, you’ll know it’s good to go if it’s already moist. Remember to take things slow and easy and you’re on your way to giving your lover an amazing oral sex session.
Listen to her.
A lot of guys think that they are already very familiar with their lovers’ sexual preferences that they don’t listen to them anymore. Interestingly, it’s only your partner who can really ascertain if she’s having a great time during oral sex or not.
Make it a point to listen to your lover if she wants things to go faster or slower. Ask her how she wants it as you go along, too.