If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to give women the notion that you’re a very confident man because confidence is pure sexy to them.
However, unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, doing just that isn’t something complicated at all. And you shouldn’t believe the things a lot of “dating gurus” say like wearing loud outfits as well as saying certain words can help you pull this off without a hitch.
I discovered a few interesting pointers that can help you feel and act more confident during my extensive research into the male psychology though. So make sure you read on to find out what these are…
Hygiene comes first.
Sure this may sound rather cliché, but keeping a close eye on your hygiene is a very important factor when it comes to boosting your confidence levels. As it turns out, making hygiene a priority sets off something amazing inside your body.
See, when you smell and look great, the brain spikes up the number of feel-good hormones in the system. Apart from making you feel livelier, it also makes you more receptive and friendlier during social interactions.
This is because you won’t be as anxious and worrisome when being around women or perhaps going out with a woman you’ve got your eye on for a very long time. So make it a habit to make yourself look and smell good as much as you can and you’re on the right track.
Pick comfortable clothes and shoes you’d like to wear.
It is not true that there are only certain outfits that help you feel confident around women. Interestingly, anything that is decent and comfortable can be worn to help you do just that. You don’t have to follow the advice of self-proclaimed “dating gurus” that will only make you look ridiculous.
There are some so-called gurus who recommend wearing the loudest, most eye-catching apparel during social interactions since they make you appear strong and a go-getter, much like the alpha male of the pack. Well, I think that’s simply silly.
Make it a point to keep accessories at a minimal, too. A watch and cuff link combo should do the trick. Don’t forget to give your shoes a meticulous cleaning before you meet and greet women as well since they can easily make or break a date.
Put on a smile.
Did you know that the simple act of smiling is the most effective ice breaker ever? Make it a habit to flash your pearly whites when socializing with women and you’ll give them the notion that you are an OK guy to hang out with.