If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’d like to score a lot of brownie points with the woman you’re out with during a first date. However, you won’t be able to pull off just that if you don’t get her to like you first.
Unlike what so-called “dating gurus” say though, there isn’t a magic word or mode of dressing that you can use to instantly establish an emotional connection with your date. However, I picked up a few useful tips during my extensive research into the female sexuality that can help you.
Pay close attention to how your shoes look.
Sure you may already know that making sure that you look and smell nice during a first date is perhaps the first thing on your checklist, but there’s one key factor that you should take into consideration when taking a woman out.
And this is women have a soft spot for footwear. Now while you don’t have to be very technical with the shoes you wear on your date, you just have to keep them as clean and presentable as you can.
Clean and presentable footwear gives a woman the notion that you’re not just keeping an eye on your hygiene, but also make her feel that you are responsible. How’s that for starting things off nicely?
Switch off your mobile phone.
A simple mistake a lot of guys make when it comes to first dates is checking their mobile phones every so often. A woman expects to have your full attention during a date and if you’re not doing that, she will feel that you just showed up there without really without having a genuine interest to meet with her.
Make it a point to switch off your mobile phone or any other gadget you have with you to fully concentrate on her. Save those tweets and posts for later. Apart from being able to communicate with her more efficiently, you will also make her feel that you are really interested in her.
(Here’s why you should listen to your date intently as well.)
Avoid crossing your arms across your chest.
In the perspective of a woman, seeing her date with his arms across his chest either means he is really bored or perhaps not liking the way things are going. When she sees this, chances are she’ll have stress hormones running in her body.
And when this happens, she’ll have trouble liking or getting close to you, which is really a big problem.