Here’s the scenario…
You’re on a first date with a woman you’ve got your eye on for a very long time and naturally you’d like to ace the whole thing to convince her to go out with you a second time.
However, unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, it’s not luck that helps you ace first dates. It’s actually keeping in mind a few important things that can easily make or break your chances of pulling off just that.
And I would just like to emphasize that this article isn’t about “surefire pick-up lines” or perhaps fashion statements that so-called “dating gurus” claim mesmerize women. Make sure you follow to learn more…
Plan your date carefully.
A great date doesn’t just happen. It needs a bit of preparation. Now while spontaneity plays a key role in making a date successful, making it a point to plan a few specific details goes a long way.
Details like the venue of your date or perhaps the food you’ll be having. Just imagine how tricky it will be to impress the woman you’re out with if you bring her to a noisy, crowded place or perhaps the stuff that’s served gives her allergies.
Keep in mind that the better your date plan is, the higher your chances are of acing it.
Choose the right topics to discuss.
Building an emotional connection with your date is key to convince her that she should go out with you again. And doing just that involves knowing what to talk about to really break the ice.
You can kick things off by asking very trivial things like what her favorite book or movie is. The simpler, the better. You’ll only end up giving her the notion that you’re trying too hard to impress her if you’d open with technical stuff like politics, philosophy and religion.
Make it a point to listen to your date intently as well. Besides learning a lot of interesting things about her that you can use to dazzle her even more as you go along, you’ll also make her feel more comfortable around you.
Keep things fun.
A first date is about knowing a woman better and showing that you’re a fun guy to be with. Have fun, share a few laughs and try to learn as much as you can about her. No matter how much you like the woman you’re out with, never rush things or else you’ll only end up looking desperate.
And if she thinks that…well, you already have an idea what will happen.
(Remember not to wear tight pants while you’re at it, too.)