So you’re finding yourself coming too soon when things get hot in the bedroom these days…
No need to reach for pills, creams, salves and similar artificial stuff to stave off premature ejaculation yet though. Besides the fact that they don’t work, chances are you’ll be at risk of possible health issues that can result from doing so in the long run.
Are you looking to extend your bedroom playing time the next time you and your lover get frisky between the sheets? Here are a few key tips to keep in mind to pull off just that without a hitch:
Now while this may sound a bit simplistic, not making it a point to relax as much as you can during sex easily makes you pop too soon no matter how hard you try. This is because the brain fires up the endocrine glands to release a more than usual amount of stress hormones.
And when this happens, you won’t just find it rather tricky to last long in bed, but there’s also a very big possibility that you’ll find it difficult to get ready for lovemaking.
If you were wondering what stress hormones did to the body when they get in the picture during lovemaking, they simply disrupted the overall sexual arousal process and make the whole thing go haywire before you know it.
Take things slow and easy.
If you’re a guy reading this, chances are you just find yourself going full speed ahead when things get steamy in bed. This is actually one of the biggest reasons why you are coming too soon.
Make it a point to really keep things as slow and easy as you can so you won’t be coming a lot sooner than expected. Apart from disappointing yourself, you will also disappoint your lover more in the process. A lot on her part, too.
You can also resort to oral sex just to make sure you’re not popping anytime soon. Getting your fingers in action is also a smart idea. (Here are a few simple oral sex tips to help you get started on this.)
Focus on her pleasure.
Getting too conscious about your sexual pleasure during lovemaking makes you feel nervous. And when you feel nervous, the brain stimulates the endocrine system to produce and release stress hormones.
And when stress hormones are released…well, you get the picture. So make it a point to focus on her the whole time and you’ll be fine.