If you’re a guy checking this out, chances are getting oral action from your lover when things get hot in the bedroom is one of the things that are on your sexual checklist…
However, the problem is you just can’t seem to convince your partner to go down on you no matter how hard you try.
There’s no need to worry just yet though. You’re probably making the following mistakes that prevent her from pleasuring you down under…
You’re not keeping an eye on your hygiene.
This is one thing a lot of guys seem to overlook. If you’d like your lover to eagerly give you oral sex, then making sure that your overall hygiene is up to par is definitely a priority.
Come to think of it, if you were to put yourself in your lover’s shoes, would you look forward to giving her oral stimulation if she’s not that fresh down there? Well, there’s your answer.
Keep in mind to make it a habit take regular showers, use deodorant as well as trimming off excess shrubbery down there when they’re getting too bushy, if you know what I mean.
You’re not asking her nicely.
Being bossy can cost you a blowjob.
Let’s do the same experiment that we did earlier. How would you feel if your lover sounded like she’s bossing you around to give her oral sex? Will you still be that excited to go down on her? Will you have the notion that you’re forced to do something you don’t like?
Try to be extra nice and romantic the next time and you’ll be surprised how things will go smoothly. You can also use a tone of voice that makes her feel she’s calling the shots so she’ll be more adventurous between the sheets.
You don’t give her oral sex.
Remember the golden rule?
If you want your lover to go down on you, make it a point to give her oral sex as much as you can. This compels her to pay it forward and give you oral action herself during your next sexy romp in the bedroom.
Don’t think of the whole thing as a burden that you need to go through to satisfy your partner sexually. Think of it as something that will spice up your lovemaking sessions and make her want as much sex as she can.
Isn’t that your fantasy all along?