Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, giving your lover the pleasure she’s always wanted each time you go down on her isn’t about zeroing in on the clitoris and stimulate it like there’s no tomorrow.
So if you’re looking to really give your partner an oral sex session she won’t forget anytime soon, here are a few simple tips that you should always remember when you pleasure her nether regions:
Get rid of unwanted facial hair.
Sure having a bushy beard or mustache does give you a very badass appearance, but you won’t fully give your partner that oral sex satisfaction she wants when you go down on her if you simply allow it to grow excessively.
Instead of hitting the right spots when you get into action, you will just end up making her feel annoyed because of the mixed sensations that your mustache or beard will give her clitoris or labia. And when this happens, chances are she won’t be having a mind-blowing orgasm sooner or later no matter how hard you try.
(And just to remind you, having a pointy stubble can also give the same effect, so better get rid of it as soon as you can.)
Don’t go straight to the clitoris.
A lot of guys believe that simply making a beeline to the clitoris and kissing, caressing and licking it as much as they can is the only technique to keep in mind when it comes to oral sex.
The thing is doing that won’t just be rather uncomfortable to your lover, but can easily make her clitoris sore and tender. Make it a point to warm her up first by stimulating her other erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs as well as the back of the neck.
You’ll know it’s time to pleasure her clitoris when she’s the one leading you to it.
Slow and easy does it.
Unlike men that can get into a sexual mood at the drop of a hat, women need time to ease into it. This means unless you properly warmed her up beforehand, stimulating her orally won’t be that pleasurable for her.
Take things as slow and easy as you can to achieve this. Sure this may sound a bit unexciting, but you can expect to have the intensity and rhythm of your oral sex session to go faster and heavier as you go along, so hang in there.