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Boost your chances of getting your lover in bed with these simple tips...

Boost your chances of getting your lover in bed with these simple tips…

If you’re anything like most men, you probably like to get in action between the sheets as much as you want. However, you seem to have a problem firing up your lover in the bedroom these days…

So if you’re still having a tough time getting things hot in the bedroom with your partner, here are a few simple tips that will surely boost your chances of getting the job done without a fuss:

Prep up your bedroom.

One of the most important factors of getting a woman look forward to lovemaking is relaxation. The more relaxed she is, the easier it is to become sexually aroused when you start making things steamy in bed.

What’s really interesting is a messy bedroom can easily irk your lover and prevent her from getting as relaxed as possible to make her sexually aroused no matter how hard you try. It really doesn’t matter if you’re putting your A-game on the foreplay already.

This simply means that if she thinks your bedroom is icky, chances are she won’t be ready for sex.

Give yourself a makeover.

Now that we’ve got that covered, the next step is to spruce yourself up for your lover. Making it a point to look and smell good is a priority if you want to convince her to get down and dirty with you in the bedroom.

Have regular showers in your daily checklist. Make sure you get rid of excess facial hair that can feel annoying and uncomfortable to your partner. Use deodorant regularly to do away with the funky armpit odor. Spritz on perfume to take things up a notch as well.

In short, make it a habit to look and smell awesome and you’ll find it easier to convince your lover to get frisky with you in bed. You also boost the number of positive hormones in your body while at it, making you more confident and charming in the process.

Send her naughty and sexy messages.

Making a woman sexually aroused is mostly mental. This is why stimulating your lover’s mind is key when it comes to making her want to jump in bed with you. Unless you pull it off, your chances of making her eager for sex are quite slim.

Sending her a naughty text message or an email describing the things you’ll do when you’re alone together is sure to jump start her imagination and make it easier for you to get her going in bed.

(And be sure to keep clear from too much salt in your diet to prevent erectile dysfunction.)

Find out what habits can lead to erectile dysfunction.

Find out what habits can lead to erectile dysfunction.

Now while I am not meaning to scare you, there is a very big chance that you will lose your ability to achieve a stable erection when things get steamy between the sheets if you have a few habits that can affect how your body works during sexual arousal.

So if you’re looking to get rock hard each and every time you and your lover are getting frisky in the bedroom, make sure you follow along to find out what these habits are that can have a negative effect on your erections:

You eat a lot of fried stuff.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you probably like to munch on your favorite fried delicacies. Although there is nothing wrong with enjoying them from time to time, overindulging in fried foods can eventually prevent the ideal flow of blood in the body.

And when this happens, the blood that is supposed to flow to the pelvic region and to the erectile tissues in the penis won’t get there properly. It’s either you will have a hard time getting a strong erection or you won’t get one at all during sexual arousal.

Needless to say, this can be very frustrating for you and your lover.

You are a couch potato.

Having a sedentary lifestyle can mean losing your ability to achieve stable erections. Sounds rather crazy? Well, as it turns out, not making it a habit to exercise regularly can lead to health issues that can make getting hard during sexual arousal rather difficult.

Apart from obesity, you are also at risk of diabetes, hypertension, heart attack, stroke and clogged arteries if regular exercise is not on your schedule. Sweating it out for at least 15 minutes every day is enough to keep your erections as strong as possible.

And if you’re still having a tough time choosing which exercise regimen to go for, start with low-impact workouts like brisk walking and slow jogging. Hopping on a bike is a smart choice as well.

You drink and smoke too much.

If you’re a guy reading this, enjoying your favorite brew after a hard day’s work or perhaps during a social event is definitely on your to-do list. However, guzzling a lot of it frequently can already cause a health condition called “vasoconstriction,” in which the veins and arteries harden and make it tough for blood to flow through.

Limiting your consumption to a portion or two when you enjoy your favorite drink is a priority to avoid erectile dysfunction. As for smoking, it’s better to kick the habit as soon as you can.

Want to boost your chances of acing a first date? Check this out.

Want to boost your chances of acing a first date? Check this out.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably want to ace a first date when you’ve finally convinced a woman you like to go out with you.

Apart from ensuring that you’ll establish an emotional connection with her, acing a first date is also your ticket to guarantee that you’ll have the chance to go out with her a second time.

However, to pull off just that, you’d have to keep clear of these dating mistakes…

You don’t keep a close eye on your personal hygiene.

Now while this may sound rather simplistic, not paying close attention to your hygiene can easily break your chances of acing a first date no matter how hard you try. Hygiene is a big deal to women and how you look and smell are key factors to pull it off.

Make it a point to really spruce yourself up before your date. Take a meticulous shower. Put on some deodorant. Get rid of excess facial hair. Brush and floss your teeth. Choose an outfit that enhances your features. Have a spritz or two of your favorite cologne or perfume.

Interestingly, looking and smelling great is also a very effective confidence booster, which helps you ace your first date even more.

You check your phone frequently.

During my extensive research into the female psychology, giving a woman all your attention during a first date is very significant if you’re looking to ace the whole thing. And this means not checking your phone, tablet or whatever gadget you may have with you when you’re taking her out.

Not checking your phone minute after minute allows you to be more attentive to what she’s saying during your discussion. Aside from learning a lot of things about your date that you can use to your advantage to dazzle her as you go along, it also helps you build an emotional connection with her easily.

Ditch the status posting and tweeting during your date. If she thinks you’re not paying enough attention to her, your date might end sooner than you’d like and she won’t be going out with you again anytime soon.

You drink too much.

Now while having a drink or two during a first date is perfectly fine, overdoing it will only lead to disaster. Not only will drunkenness make you act rather annoyingly, there is also a chance that you will say something unpleasant in the process.

A couple of beers or perhaps a glass of wine or two during a first date is okay. Guzzling it like there’s no tomorrow is definitely not okay.

Here are a few reasons why she's not that excited for oral sex these days...

Here are a few reasons why she’s not that excited for oral sex these days…

Going down on your lover is probably one of the items on your sexual checklist when things get steamy in the bedroom. However, you’re just noticing nowadays that she’s not that excited for action down under anymore…

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Chances are you’re simply making a few mistakes that can easily ruin her mood for oral action. Make sure you follow along to find out what these are and really excite her as soon as you start heading south of her border.

You have excessive facial hair.

You basically use your lips and tongue to make oral sex pleasurable for your lover. Now while licking, caressing and kissing your partner’s genitals can give her nice sensations, these feelings can be disrupted if there are unwanted things that get in the way when you get in action.

And one of the key factors that tend to hinder these sensations is too much facial hair. Apart from making it difficult for you to really zero in on the erogenous zones that you should stimulate during oral sex, wayward hairs can also repeatedly hit the clitoris, labia and vagina.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, having a bushy beard or a thick mustache won’t make oral sex more pleasurable to women. There’s even a possibility that your lover will find the sensations they give quite annoying, so make sure you get your facial hair trimmed properly before you dive in.

You go straight to the clitoris.

Although the clitoris is one of the most sensitive parts of the female anatomy, making a beeline for it when you’re going down on your lover isn’t going to instantly make her feel the pleasure she wants during oral sex.

See, the clitoris isn’t a magic button that immediately sends pleasure signals as soon as it is stimulated. It needs to be eased into it or else it will only feel sore and awkward no matter how hard you try. And even your most effective techniques won’t hit their mark.

Make it a point to fire her up first by focusing on other erogenous zones like the nipples or kiss her all over to start things off.

You do it roughly.

Unlike what most guys think, pleasuring their lovers down under as fast and furious as they can won’t be as nice as they believe. Interestingly, this whirlwind style will even feel uncomfortable to the point of being painful for your partner. Always remember to take things slow and easy and you’ll be surprised how much pleasure you will give your lover when you go down on her.