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Looking to ace a first date? These tips may just help you boost your chances.

Looking to ace a first date? These tips may just help you boost your chances.

Convincing a woman to go out with you again is perhaps on top of your checklist when it comes to first dates. However, pulling it off isn’t a walk in the park and there are a few things you need to keep in mind to really get the job done.

So if you’re looking to improve your chances of taking a woman out the second time around, make sure you follow along…

Look and smell as nice as you can.

Let’s kick things off with the most important factor of all when it comes to scoring a second date: making it a point to look and smell nice. Unless you pay close attention to this, chances are your date won’t be that eager to go out with you again.

Apart from making sure that your outfit is alright, remember to take a meticulous shower, splash on some deodorant and get rid of any excess facial hair that can make you look unkempt to your date. Having a spritz or two of perfume also helps a lot as well.

Sure this may sound like a lot of work, but keeping a close eye on your smell and appearance does more than just showing a woman that you’re paying attention to your hygiene. You’re also boosting the number of mood-altering hormones produced and released in your body, which make you feel more relaxed and confident on your date.

Have a few interesting topics up your sleeve.

Building an emotional connection with your date is important to convince her to go out with you again. And the best way to establish this connection with a woman is engaging her in a meaningful conversation.

However, carefully picking out the topics you should talk about is a priority if you want to get her attention and keep it that way. Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, keeping things as trivial as possible is the way to go.

Ask her what her favorite book or movie is and you’ll be surprised how easy it is to sustain the conversation. Keep in mind to listen to her intently while you’re at it since you can also pick up a lot of useful things to dazzle your date even more.

Give her all your attention.

Now while checking your phone once or twice during your first date may not sound like something that can ruin the whole experience, but overdoing it can make a woman feel that you’re bored or worse, not interested in her at all.

Make it a point to put off posting status messages or tweets until after your date to give the woman you are out with all your focus, which boosts your brownie points while at it. Although sharing on your social media network that you’re out on a date is cool, ensuring that you’re on your way to a second one is much more awesome.

So you have the habit of drinking too much...

So you have the habit of drinking too much…

Chilling out after a hard day’s work with a cold one (or your favorite drink in that matter) is perhaps on your checklist when it comes to unwinding.

However, overindulging in booze can easily lead to problems when you and your lover get frisky between the sheets in the long run. Sure this may sound a bit surprising, but you will find out more when you follow along…

Too much alcohol can lead to erectile dysfunction.

Although enjoying a portion or two of your favorite drink daily is perfectly fine, chugging it like there’s no tomorrow can lead to a condition called vasoconstriction, where blood channels like veins, arteries and blood vessels stiffen up.

Apart from preventing blood from flowing to the erectile tissues in the penis to get an erection going during sexual arousal, there is also a chance that you won’t stay hard for a very long time while at it. Just imagine how disappointing that would be for you and your lover.

Over the top boozing can delay sexual function.

When it comes to getting ready for a sex session, having the right amount of mood-altering hormones in the body can make or break your chances of pleasuring your lover when things get steamy in bed.

These hormones basically set off the key changes in the body needed to prep you up for a sex session. Aside from boosting your breathing and pulse rate, they also send lots of blood to the pelvic region to get you rock hard and keep it that way.

Interestingly, the negative effects of alcohol in the body delay its ability to produce and release hormones during sexual arousal. Come to think of it, don’t you feel sluggish when you’ve got a hangover? Your body goes through the same experience when you have one.

Too much booze can numb sexual sensations.

Do you notice how your body feels numb when you knock back more alcohol than you should have? This is also what will happen to the sensations you will experience during lovemaking. Instead of fully feeling the pleasure of sex, the sensations you will experience will be significantly reduced.

Too much alcohol also leads to the deterioration of sensory nerves if you make it a habit to drink one too many servings of your favorite booze in a constant basis. And this can lead to even more serious problems in the bedroom sooner or later if this takes place.

(Now here’s a reason why it’s taking longer for your lover to get wet these days…)

So you're looking to boost your sexual performance? Masturbate more often.

So you’re looking to boost your sexual performance? Masturbate more often.

Now while this may sound surprising, masturbating in a regular basis should be on your checklist if you’re looking to take your sexual performance up a notch.

Make sure you read to find out why self-stimulation can help you improve your performance when you and your lover get frisky in the bedroom.

It can help you last longer during sex.

I know this sounds crazy, but making it a point to go solo frequently can help you extend your bedroom playing time when you and your lover get frisky between the sheets.

This is because it can help condition your brain to regulate the release of mood-altering hormones during sexual arousal so they won’t overwhelm your system and make you ejaculate sooner than you’d like to, which can be very disappointing for you and your partner.

Think of masturbation as a practice for lovemaking.

Come to think of it, apart from giving your lover the sexual pleasure she really wants, just imagine how pleasurable each and every “practice session” is while you’re at it?

It can stave off prostate problems in the long run.

Did you know that masturbating can help you prevent prostate health issues that can unexpectedly hit you sooner or later?

Besides releasing semen, ejaculating when you masturbate also helps you get rid of unwanted toxins that may have accumulated in the male reproductive system, particularly in the linings of the prostate.

When these toxins aren’t eliminated from the system, they can eventually set off a number of health issues, which can be anywhere from difficulty urinating to more issues ones like prostate cancer. Now that’s what you call keeping your prostate’s health up to par while enjoying the whole thing in one smooth package.

It can help you get strong erections.

Masturbating frequently basically helps train your brain to produce and release hormones to get a stable erection going and keep it that way to make sexual penetration possible (and pleasure your lover every time you get frisky in bed).

You are also conditioning your brain to hold a strong erection for as long as possible so you won’t suddenly get a case of the dreaded softie syndrome when you least expect it. So how about giving masturbation a go right now and start taking your sex life and health to a whole new level?

You will surely have a great time in the process as well.

Now here’s why smoking can prevent you from getting stable erections…

Do you find your lover not that excited for sex these days?

Do you find your lover not that excited for sex these days?

So your lover is not that excited like she used to when you try making things steamier than usual in the bedroom…

If you’re noticing that your partner isn’t too eager to get between the sheets with you nowadays, there is no need to worry just yet. You may simply be overlooking the following mistakes that tend to ruin her sexual mood…

Not paying close attention to your hygiene.

Sure this may sound a bit simplistic, but not keeping an eye on your hygiene can lead to problems convincing your partner to get down and dirty with you in the bedroom. This is because how you look and smell can have a very huge impact in building up her sexual arousal.

See, a woman’s body needs a hormonal reaction to get ready for lovemaking. Unless this happens, she won’t experience the changes in her system to prepare her for action in bed like becoming sufficiently lubricated down there and boosting the sensitivity of her erogenous zones.

Pulling this off isn’t that tricky really. You just have to take regular showers, put on deodorant, brush and floss your teeth as well as having a spritz or two of perfume and you’re sure good to go. Make sure you get rid of excessive facial hairs since they can reduce oral sex pleasure while at it.

Smoking and drinking a lot.

Now while it is alright to enjoy your favorite drink from time to time moderately, overdoing the whole thing can lead to problems the next time you’d like to do the horizontal mambo with your lover.

This because apart from smelling rather unpleasant when you’ve consumed one too many portions of your drink, being intoxicated frequently also leads to a condition called vasoconstriction, in which the blood vessels tighten up and prevent you from achieving a stable erection.

And as for smoking, it doesn’t have any beneficial effects to the body and will only make you smell like an ashtray, so make sure you quit the habit as soon as you can.

Having a messy bedroom.

During my extensive research into the female psychology, nothing ruins a woman’s sexual mood like a dirty and cluttered bedroom.

Apart from giving your lover the notion that you are irresponsible, you will also make her feel that you’re not paying close attention to your hygiene…which gets us back to the very first item on this list.