So your lover is not that excited like she used to when you try making things steamier than usual in the bedroom…
If you’re noticing that your partner isn’t too eager to get between the sheets with you nowadays, there is no need to worry just yet. You may simply be overlooking the following mistakes that tend to ruin her sexual mood…
Not paying close attention to your hygiene.
Sure this may sound a bit simplistic, but not keeping an eye on your hygiene can lead to problems convincing your partner to get down and dirty with you in the bedroom. This is because how you look and smell can have a very huge impact in building up her sexual arousal.
See, a woman’s body needs a hormonal reaction to get ready for lovemaking. Unless this happens, she won’t experience the changes in her system to prepare her for action in bed like becoming sufficiently lubricated down there and boosting the sensitivity of her erogenous zones.
Pulling this off isn’t that tricky really. You just have to take regular showers, put on deodorant, brush and floss your teeth as well as having a spritz or two of perfume and you’re sure good to go. Make sure you get rid of excessive facial hairs since they can reduce oral sex pleasure while at it.
Smoking and drinking a lot.
Now while it is alright to enjoy your favorite drink from time to time moderately, overdoing the whole thing can lead to problems the next time you’d like to do the horizontal mambo with your lover.
This because apart from smelling rather unpleasant when you’ve consumed one too many portions of your drink, being intoxicated frequently also leads to a condition called vasoconstriction, in which the blood vessels tighten up and prevent you from achieving a stable erection.
And as for smoking, it doesn’t have any beneficial effects to the body and will only make you smell like an ashtray, so make sure you quit the habit as soon as you can.
Having a messy bedroom.
During my extensive research into the female psychology, nothing ruins a woman’s sexual mood like a dirty and cluttered bedroom.
Apart from giving your lover the notion that you are irresponsible, you will also make her feel that you’re not paying close attention to your hygiene…which gets us back to the very first item on this list.