If you’re like most guys, chances are you want your first dates to be as smooth as possible to really make the woman you’re out with eager to do it again anytime soon.
However, unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think though, there is no such thing as an instant connection during a first date. You have to keep a few essential tips in mind to really get the job done.
So if you’re looking to ace your next first date easily, here are the pointers you need to remember that will help you boost your chances of pulling it off:
Prioritize proper grooming.
Looking and smelling good should definitely be on top of your checklist if you’re hoping to impress your date. Besides showing the woman you’re out with that you are taking care of yourself, not mentioning perking up your attractiveness, it also has a positive effect on your body.
Interestingly, knowing that you smell and look nice helps the brain produce mood-altering hormones that make you feel happier, more cordial and sociable, attributes that will definitely give your date the notion that she will have a great time with you.
Choose a place she is comfortable in.
Unlike what most men believe, simply picking out the most expensive restaurant that you can find to have your first date in doesn’t guarantee that the woman you’re out with is going to enjoy the experience.
It’s really smart if you take time to ask your date where she’d like to have it. You’ll be quite surprised with the possible answers you will get, too. Apart from the typical restaurant, some women would rather have a date at their favorite deli, coffee place or even sports bar.
Just make sure the place isn’t too noisy or you will have a hard time listening intently to your date, which plays a key factor in the success of the whole thing.
Keep the booze in moderation.
Now while I am not saying that you should entirely stay clear from alcoholic drinks during a date (wine and beer do make some tasty foods even more scrumptious), overdoing it can lead to disaster sooner or later.
Apart from making it really tough for you to communicate properly with your date, excessive alcohol can also cloud your judgement and actions, which can lead to your saying or doing things that can annoy or make her really uncomfortable.
Just keep in mind to keep things moderate and you’re good to go.