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Here are the reasons why you're not making her orgasm...

Here are the reasons why you’re not making her orgasm…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are making your lover orgasm between the sheets is your number one goal.

Although I don’t mean this as something offensive, the possibility that she won’t be reaching the point of no return will be extremely low if you’re making the following mistakes.

Make sure you read on to learn the things that may be hindering you from giving your lover an orgasm each and every time you get frisky in the bedroom.

You are rushing things.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it or else she won’t be getting the pleasure she wants. And this can also easily break her chances of getting an orgasm.

Before you get into action, keep in mind to make sure that your partner is really ready for sex. Warm her up properly so she’ll be lubricated properly and experience the pleasure that she wants in bed.

Her brain won’t also release the pleasure hormones that she’ll need to get her body going for an orgasm so better keep clear from rushing things.

You are not stimulating her erogenous zones like she wants to.

Sure you may have an idea what erogenous zones can give her the pleasure she needs during sex, but there is a big chance that your idea of making her feel good may not be the same as hers.

Make it a point to ask your lover how she wants her erogenous zones stimulated. Besides ensuring that you are doing the whole thing right, the possibility that she’ll reach the Big O also is also boosted.

Don’t rely on porn films when it comes to giving your partner an orgasm. Ask her directly.

You don’t have the right mindset.

Not having the mindset that you’ll make her orgasm can ruin your chances of giving her one. Now while this may sound rather odd, but you won’t be able to really satisfy her between the sheets if you are not really into it mentally.

Having the wrong mindset simply makes you act as if you’re not interested in what you’re doing. Sure you can easily pretend, but your lover can feel that you’re just faking and will prevent her from orgasming.

Make sure you keep these in mind the next time things get hot in the bedroom to increase your chances of giving your lover a mind-blowing orgasm when you get into action.

Not getting enough sleep can lead to problems in your sex life...

Not getting enough sleep can lead to problems in your sex life…

I’ve received a lot of messages in my inbox within the past few days from guys asking what would happen if they didn’t have enough sleep and could it be a reason that their sexual performance will weaken.

Now while not getting enough shuteye once or twice isn’t that big of a deal, being chronically sleep-deprived can greatly affect your sex life sooner or later.

Here are just a few of the effects of constantly not getting the right amount of sleep when things thing get hot in the bedroom:

Your sexual stamina will dwindle.

Sleep plays a key role in restoring the body’s energy levels. Apart from giving the muscles the rest and relaxation they need, it also eases up the activity of vital organs like the heart and lungs, which can be very intense when you are awake.

Unless the body gets the sufficient amount of sleep it requires, you won’t feel as energized as usual and will only feel considerably tired even to the point of lethargy.

And just imagine what would happen if your lover is in the mood for action between the sheets when you’re feeling really exhausted…

Sure it is possible that you can still have sex even if you don’t have the right energy levels, but you will only last quicker than you’d like to – and the possibility that you won’t orgasm while at it is very high as well.

Your testosterone will dip down.

Sleep helps the endocrine system produce testosterone, a sex hormone that can make or break your chances of getting an erection as well as keeping it long enough to make lovemaking possible.

Interestingly, the chronic lack of sufficient amount of sleep will only lead to a dramatic decline in testosterone levels.

What’s really scary is there’s even a chance that you won’t get an erection no matter how hard you try during sexual arousal when your testosterone levels are not up to par. Just think about how embarrassing the whole thing will be when that happens.

Your confidence levels will nosedive.

Now while this may sound surprising, sleep is one of the factors that keep your skin looking great and fresh. This is because getting the right amount of snoozing helps the body produce collagen, a natural chemical that repairs damaged skin.

Sure this may not be as critical as the other effects of the lack of testosterone in the body, but this can still affect your confidence when you’re on a date or simply trying to entice your partner for some action between the sheets.

(Now here’s why you should eat a lot of fiber.)

So you want your lover to be more adventurous between the sheets...

So you want your lover to be more adventurous between the sheets…

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably wondered from time to time how to really unleash the sexual tiger within your lover.

And now while this may sound surprising, there are actually ways to do just that and they aren’t as complicated as you think. Make sure you follow along to find out what they are…

Ask her what she wants

You’d never expect that something as simple as asking your partner what she wants during lovemaking can easily make her want to push her sexual limits.

This is because your lover will feel that she can get the chance to dominate the sexual act, something she doesn’t have the opportunity to do a lot of times when things get hot in the bedroom.

Start things off by asking your partner to call the shots the next time you get in action between the sheets. Let her decide which foreplay techniques and sexual positions to go for. Give her the notion that she’s totally in control and she won’t be that timid than usual in bed.

Ask her nicely.

Sometimes the best way to awaken the sexy beast in your lover is to ask her nicely to be one. Unlike men who don’t usually have a problem getting in touch with their sexual desires at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it.

There’s no need for sorcery or artificial stuff to pull it off though. Asking her to be more adventurous when things get steamy in bed is one way to do it. This is because the act of making her feel that she’s playing an important role during lovemaking helps her brain produce and release cortisol, a type of hormone that can help her become more confident.

Besides making her more confident socially, it also helps her become more easy-going between the sheets, which is definitely a win-win situation.

Make her feel really curious.

Appealing to your lover’s curiosity is one simple way of ensuring that she will be more adventurous during sex. Apart from making her feel that she’s missing out on something, she will also have the notion that she will enjoy lovemaking more if she loosens up a bit.

Make it a point to intrigue her psychologically by describing sexual positions and foreplay techniques you haven’t tried before. Use your creativity to really reel her in. And once you do, chances are you’ll be surprised how wild she can be in the bedroom.

Now here’s a mistake that can easily make you come sooner than you’d like to…