Although women love sex as much as men do, there will be times when they will just put on a performance between the sheets because they haven’t been stimulated enough to really get going in bed.
Or they’re just plain exhausted or perhaps simply self-conscious that their partners might feel bad for not giving them the satisfaction that they’ve always wanted in bed.
Sure you may think that you’re always making your lover orgasm each time you have sex, but there is a good chance that she’s just faking them some of the time. Here are a few simple pointers on how to know if she’s getting the real deal or simply giving you a show:
She isn’t having quick and shallow breaths.
A woman’s body goes through a lot of sexual impulses during lovemaking. It virtually goes into overdrive to deal with each particular impulse, which means it needs more lung power to accommodate the significant increase in the intake of oxygen in the system.
When a woman almost reaches orgasm, this is when her lungs work the hardest. If she really is getting a genuine orgasm, your lover will be in a state of panting and breathlessness at the same time. If she’s not, well, she’s just taking you for a ride.
She isn’t breaking into a sweat.
As I have pointed out earlier, a woman’s body is working hard to take care of the sexual impulses that are happening in her system. The activity in her body can be compared to her having a quick jog or perhaps engaging in some sort of aerobics, which means she’ll be perspiring while at it.
You can easily tell if your lover is just pretending to have an orgasm if she doesn’t even have a bead or two of sweat in the more conspicuous areas of her body like the forehead or face. If she’s practically dry, then chances are she’s just faking it.
She doesn’t appear flushed.
An immense flow of blood is channeled all over a woman’s body during sex and will even become stronger when she is close to orgasm. It’s so strong that it will even make some parts of her body appear red or flushed like the chest, forehead, lips and cheeks.
If your partner is moaning and gyrating like crazy, but her complexion stays the same, there’s a possibility that she’s just pretending to reach the Big O. Just to set things straight, no amount of acting can top the real thing.