If you hear your lover say “I’m not in the mood” or “I’ve got a headache” just every time you’re feeling frisky in the bedroom, chances are you need to have a few changes on your sexual checklist to make her want to get in action between the sheets again.
So if you’re looking to easily take your partner’s sex drive off the charts, here are a few pointers you have to keep in mind to help you pull it off:
Ask her what she really wants.
Sometimes simply asking your partner what she wants to do in bed encourages her to participate more during lovemaking. Make it a point to get her talking when you’re in the mood so you know how to really get her going. You might even be surprised when she drops hints about the things you’d like to try as well like anal sex and other stuff.
Improve your hygiene.
Women are very particular with how a guy looks and smells when sexual arousal is concerned. If she thinks you’re not giving off the right nasal and visual cues, your lover won’t that be too excited to start getting things spicy in bed when you’re in the mood.
Apart from making sure that you shower regularly, also have brushing and flossing on your schedule daily. Using deodorant and trimming your nails are good additions to your hygienic checklist as well. Top it off with a spritz of cologne or perfume and you’re sure to be in business sooner than you think.
Take her somewhere exciting.
Studies show that a spike in adrenaline levels among women promotes the rise in hormones that help them get sexually aroused. Remember to take your lover to a hiking trip, a rollercoaster ride, skydiving or simply any kind of activity that will get her adrenaline levels rising. You’ll be rewarded with more time between the sheets with her.
Boost your sexual stamina.
A lot of women become disinterested in sex because their partners simply can’t last long enough to give them the satisfaction they’ve always wanted. If you’re noticing that you don’t seem to last as long between the sheets as before, then you’ve got to deal with it properly as soon as you can.
There are a lot of ways you can go for to boost your sexual stamina, such as having regular exercise in your schedule and having a healthy diet, just to name a couple. Sweating it out also strengthens your muscles and optimizes your blood flow, so you won’t have a problem getting rock hard when you need to.