Anal sex is definitely one of the things that can be found in every man’s lovemaking bucket list and I bet it’s in yours as well.
Now while you’ve probably thought about getting it on in the backdoor with your lover rather too often, chances are you still haven’t spent time listing the things you should remember if you do get lucky one of these days.
So if you’re looking to pleasure her with anal sex, here are things you should have down to pat to really get her going…
Use lots of lube.
Anal sex is absolutely far from engaging in vaginal sex. The anus does not produce a natural lubricant to deal with any friction that may occur when you get into action. You need to get your hands on quality lubrication and lots of it if you’re planning to make your anal sex session unforgettable for your lover.
Make sure you grab a water-based lubricant instead of an oil-based variety while at it. Besides having a more natural feel, water-based lubricants are also more hypo-allergenic and won’t have you or your partner suffering from rashes and other nasty stuff afterward.
Start really, really slow.
Now while you may be very tempted to get at it as fast as you can when it comes to anal sex, always remember to start things off really slow. The anus is basically designed to get things out instead of the other way around so you should be very careful when you sexually penetrate your lover anally.
Provided that you already applied a lot of lubrication, start inserting your penis a quarter of an inch at a time and gauge her reaction while at it. Never try to shove the whole thing inside her anus at once or else you’ll end up hurting her…not mentioning ending your anal sex romp somewhat prematurely.
Reapply lubrication now and then.
There will come a time when that generous application of lube will simply peter out. You need to apply a liberal amount again to ensure that your lover won’t feel any discomfort while you’re having anal sex. And just to make things clear, never think about scrimping on lube even once.
Stay with the anus until it’s over.
No matter what you do, never put your penis inside her vagina when it’s been in her anus. You are only putting her at risk of contracting a number of health issues when you do it. Should you want to shift from anal sex to vaginal sex, make sure you wash your genitals carefully with soap and water before you do it.
(And now we’ve got that covered, here’s one weird reason why you always come too soon.)