If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably experienced coming rather too soon from time to time during sex.
Now while there may be a lot of possible instances why you ejaculated prematurely, the primary reason why a lot of guys don’t last long in bed is because they don’t think positively.
Sure this may sound surprising, but negative thinking can ruin your chances of actually giving your lover the sexual satisfaction she wants.
Make sure you follow along to learn how thinking positively can help you extend your bedroom playing time easily.
It helps you relax better.
Now while men and women can be very different when it comes to getting sexually aroused, guys still need to be relaxed with themselves so they won’t ejaculate too quickly during lovemaking.
Anxiety doesn’t just affect a man’s ability to get a stable erection, but can also disrupt his ability to last long between the sheets because he feels he extremely stressed instead of being pleasured. Moreover, you can also make your lover feel awkward while at it because chances are your movements are going to be somewhat clumsy and uncoordinated.
It helps you think about how you can pleasure her better.
Come to think of it, can you really focus on giving a woman the sexual pleasure she’s always wanted if all the things in your head are negative?
Besides having the possibility of doing the wrong things that won’t give her as much sexual pleasure, you can also experience a panic attack in the process if you overload your mind with negative thinking.
Positive thinking not only allows you to properly plan out your sexual strategy, but it can help you carry it out without a fuss as well. Your movements will be more fluid and she won’t feel you’re rushing her in any way, too.
It helps you become more sensitive with your body’s sexual responses.
As I have emphasized earlier, negative thinking won’t just lead to your having trouble getting an erection, but successfully lasting long in bed like you want as well.
This is because it basically warps the way your body reacts to sexual stimuli. Sure you can still get an erection and feel pleasure during sex, but it isn’t as good when your mind is not shrouded in negative thoughts.
It’s like forcing yourself to enjoy something you really don’t find enjoyable. And here’s the thing, if you’re more sensitive to your sexual responses, you can easily gauge your movements to avoid coming too soon. You can easily go faster and slower during lovemaking without worrying about ejaculating prematurely.