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Show women you're a catch with these simple pointers.

Show women you’re a catch with these simple pointers.

Unlike what most men mistakenly believe, attracting women is not all about looking like a movie star or having the physique of a professional athlete.

There are actually simple ways you can turn women’s heads and reeling them in without a fuss. So if you’re looking to take your attractiveness to the opposite sex up a notch, here are a few pointers that will surely help you do just that…

Take a shower.

Now while this may sound rather straightforward, women basically prefer men who hold hygiene in high regard. Women are very particular about the visual and nasal cues you give off. In other words, if you look and smell a bit funky, chances are a woman won’t be that too eager to mingle with you.

Make it a point to take regular showers. Use deodorant every day. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice daily. Spritz a bit of cologne or perfume. Just to make the whole thing even more interesting, knowing that you smell and look great also boosts the amount of endorphins or happy hormones in your brain, making you more sociable and confident around women.

Improve your posture.

You may remember the countless times your mom told you to always stand up straight and have your shoulders square. Sure you may have only begrudgingly followed because you’re afraid she might pinch you somewhere you don’t want her to. However, having a good posture can actually attract women.

A recent University of Washington study revealed that majority of women found men who have good posture more attractive because they thought it gave the impression of excellent health and an agreeable disposition. This also goes to say that mothers really do know best.

Dress appropriately.

A lot of men think that sports team jerseys can be worn in every occasion. Some also think that sagging pants is the in thing, too, along with baggy shirts. If you’re looking to be more attractive to women, improving your outfit choices should also be on your checklist.

The first thing you should do is go for a more mature apparel selection. Choose pants and shirts that aren’t just appropriate for your age, but fit you right as well. Dress up like a debonair and your efforts will be rewarded. Dressing down because you think it’s cool can lead to disaster sooner or later.

Avoid drinking or smoking too much.

Now while drinking offers a few health benefits like making your heart stronger and keeping blood flow excellent, overdoing it can make you smell rather unpleasant to women. You can’t also start and keep a nice conversation going if you’re intoxicated. On the other hand, smoking only makes you smell like an ashtray and stains your teeth. Quit this nasty habit as soon as you can.

Here's how you can keep your sex life amazing even after years of marriage...

Here’s how you can keep your sex life amazing even after years of marriage…

A lot of husbands mistakenly believe that marriage is the end of hot sex. They think that they’re already resigning themselves to dull lovemaking the moment they exchange vows with their wives at the altar.

Now while it’s true that maintaining a great sex life in marriage involves both the husband and wife, not having the initiative to turn things around when getting frisky between the sheets becomes rather monotonous can easily lead to serious problems sooner or later.

So if you’re looking to bring back the wildly pleasurable sex sessions you and your spouse used to have before you tied the knot, here are a few useful pointers that will definitely help you do just that without a fuss…

See her as your lover again.

Men seem to immediately think of their wives as different people when they get married. They have this mindset that their spouses won’t be as wild and adventurous in the bedroom compared to when they were still going steady as a couple.

And this is where the problem usually starts. They think that since they’re already married, their wives won’t be as interested in sex as before.

If you’re feeling that your lovemaking sessions with your wife aren’t that spicy anymore, get rid of the idea that your lover or girlfriend became a different person after marriage. Just think of it as a different phase in your relationship and you can still get wild and crazy with her during sex.

Keep your kids out of your bedroom.

Keep in mind to make your bedroom a no-kids zone. Sure this may sound rather out of the box, but not designating your bedroom as a private place for you as a couple will only result to unexpected distractions and interruptions when things get hot between you and the missus.

Just remember that kids can still have the run of your home. It’s simply your bedroom that they’re not allowed in so it’s really a fair trade-off. And having great sex with your wife every time you get in the mood is definitely worth it.

Don’t be sloppy with your hygiene.

A lot of husbands seem to forget that their wives are still very particular with the way they look and smell simply because that’s the way a woman’s mind works. Make sure you still take regular showers and use deodorant. Shave off that beard. Trim your fingernails. Let her know that you’ve still got it and chances are she won’t be able to keep her hands off you. (Here’s how you can improve your foreplay skills while at it, too.)

Keeping your ability to get a stable erection is really that complicated.

Keeping your ability to get a stable erection isn’t really that complicated.

Having a rock hard erection is simply one the most important things that you’ll need when it comes to giving your lover an amazing time in bed.

Besides stimulating the hypersensitive nerve endings in your partner’s vagina, having a stable erection also means you won’t have to go through unwanted interruptions during your lovemaking session.

So if you’re looking to keep your ability to get rock hard up to par, here are a few simple pointers that will definitely help you do just that…

Avoid sitting too much.

There is scientific proof that there’s a direct link between having a sedentary lifestyle and erectile dysfunction. Spending most of the day sitting down watching TV or playing video games simply weakens your heart’s ability to pump blood efficiently all over your body.

Significant dips in your blood flow mean that the erectile tissues in your penis won’t be getting the sufficient amount of blood they need to get hard and ready for sex. Make it a point to at least allot 20 to 30 minutes of your day sweating it out.

Drink in moderation.

Now while drinking like a fish day by day can eventually lead to constricted blood vessels and arteries that can hinder the flow of blood to your penis, indulging in a glass or two of your favorite brews can actually help make the heart stronger.

And just to set things straight, this doesn’t apply to smoking even a bit. Smoking cigarettes will only lead to the build-up of plaque in the lining of your blood vessels, which can lead to strokes and other potentially fatal health issues in the future.

Avoid too much sweet stuff.

Excessive sugar consumption can lead to the development of diabetes. And one of the effects of diabetes in the body is disrupting the flow of information from the nerves to the brain, which includes the signals your brain needs to send more blood to your penis during sexual arousal.

Now while it’s alright to indulge in your favorite desserts and other delectable goodies once in a while, doing it in a daily basis can easily lead to diabetes the least you expect it. Just remember to always take it easy and you’ll be fine.

Brush and floss daily.

Good oral health is a requirement when stable erections are concerned. Not taking care of your pearly whites and gums like you should will only lead to a number of oral problems, which can easily allow nasty bacteria to break into the bloodstream via diseased teeth and gums.

Sure it may sound rather dull and boring, but regularly flossing and brushing your teeth at least twice daily can help prevent tooth decay, gingivitis and other oral diseases. Make sure you regularly visit your dentist every 4 to 6 months as well, not just when you’re having a toothache or sore gums. (Masturbation also has a lot of positive effects you should know about, too.)

Things getting rather dull between the sheets lately? Use these pointers to make things right again.

Things getting rather dull between the sheets lately? Use these pointers to make things right again.

There’s no need to worry just yet if you notice that your lover isn’t that excited to get into bed with you nowadays.

Sure she may have rejected your advances one too many times when you get frisky between the sheets, but there are simple tricks you can use to bring back her sex drive up to par in no time.

Make sure you follow along to learn what these tricks are so you can start using them to make things hot in the bedroom again…

Pay closer attention to your hygiene.

Women are simply sticklers for good hygiene. When it comes to building up your lover’s sexual arousal, you need to give her the right visual and nasal cues to really get her going. If your partner thinks you’re simply getting sloppy with how you look and smell, then you can expect to have sexless days and nights sooner than you expect.

Make it a point to take regular showers and use deodorant daily. Keep in mind to brush and floss your teeth while at it, too. Besides giving your lover the look and smell she wants to help her get ready for sex, good oral care also ensures that you won’t be suffering from erectile dysfunction anytime soon.

Know when her mood is the brightest.

Mood plays a very important role in getting a woman sexually aroused. Unless she’s feeling really comfortable and relaxed, chances are you won’t get her ready for lovemaking no matter how hard you try.

Take time to know when your lover is at her perkiest during the day (or night) because this is usually the time when endorphins or happy hormones are released in her brain. The happier or more relaxed she feels, the easier it will be for you to get her libido going.

Make her laugh.

Laughter is not just the best medicine. It’s also the best tool you can use to get your lover fired up between the sheets because it gets rid of the stress hormone, cortisol, which is the main culprit for mood swings among women.

Share your newest jokes. Send her funny pictures via her mobile phone. Tell her your best one liners. Simply make your lover feel that you’re doing everything you can to make her laugh her heart out.

And if you keep playing your cards right, you’re sure to get her out of her clothes quickly.

Pump up her adrenaline.

A woman experiencing an adrenaline rush has elevated blood pressure levels and can be more sensitive to touch and other tactile feelings. Interestingly, they’re pretty much the same signs when she’s getting sexually aroused as well.

Find ways how you can pump up your lover’s adrenaline levels and use it to your advantage to get her going for sex. Whether it’s a day hike to the mountains or a thrilling skydive, you’re guaranteed to easily have her looking forward for sexy time in the process.