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Make her like you with these pointers...

Make her like you with these pointers…

A lot of guys mistakenly think that the best way of making a woman to like them is by showering her with lots of gifts and attention right from the beginning.

Now while this may sound like the most rational way to pull it off, you will only make her think that you just want something from her in return.

Like simply getting her in bed.

So if you’re looking to make a woman you’ve got your eyes on to like you soon, here are a few pointers that will help you do just that easily…

Build a personal relationship with her.

Instantly hitting it off with a woman is only something you see on TV or in the movies. Before you can successfully make her like you, building a personal relationship with her should be the number one item on your checklist.

Start off by making her your friend. Introduce yourself to her properly so she won’t just see you as some creepy stranger. Make her see you as someone likable. Keep in mind to avoid acting like somebody you aren’t since she’ll only see you as a pretentious creep while at it as well.

Find out what her interests are.

Making a woman connect with you emotionally involves having to share a common ground with her, which makes establishing an emotional connection with her much easier. Make it a point to learn the things that spark her interest, match them up with the stuff you like and work from there.

Whether it’s books, movies or sports, letting her know that you complement the things that hold a special place in her heart can easily earn you a lot of brownie points with her. Just remember not to lie or pretend even a bit while you’re at it because she won’t have a problem seeing through your ruse and then it’s game over. (Showing her you’re smart is a good way to pull it off, too.)

Listen to her.

If you’re following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a long time now, you probably know that women have a soft spot for men who are great listeners. Apart from feeling that you really value their time, women also think that they can talk to you for very long without feeling bored or awkward in any way. Moreover, no matter how dull her topics may be, never try to interrupt or manipulate the conversation your way. You’ll be surprised how much she’ll enjoy talking to you more.

Always be respectful.

Respect is a very important element if you’d like to connect with a woman on an emotional level. Show her that you respect her at all times and she’ll see you an adorable and likable guy. Just don’t overdo it or else she might think you’re only fit for the friend zone.

Here are a few good reasons why you should start jogging daily.

Here are a few good reasons why you should start jogging daily.

Unlike what most guys think, jogging is not only exclusive for fitness buffs.

Now while this may sound surprising, making it a habit to have a quick run regularly is not just about building up and toning muscles or shedding off excess weight. It’s also about getting stronger erections when things get hot in the bedroom and more.

Let me explain what I mean…

You see, jogging is one of the best exercises to keep the heart as healthy as ever. Apart from optimizing the heart’s ability to pump blood all over the body, it also intensifies its strength to maintain regular heartbeat patterns and prevent cardiovascular risks like arrythmia.

If you already think that’s awesome, here are a few more jogging benefits that are definitely going to help you become a better lover easily…

You won’t tire easily during sex.

All in all, sex is basically a form of exercise. It’s an activity that saps your body of energy. And unless your body is used to getting worked up for long periods of time, chances are you’ll last sooner than you’d like to between the sheets.

Jogging helps you last longer in bed by boosting your stamina levels. Since it also helps your lungs bring in more oxygen faster and easier, you won’t see yourself getting out of breath during lovemaking as well.

You won’t experience unexpected leg cramps ever again.

One of the worst things you can go through during sex is getting sudden leg aches that significantly make movement literally a pain. It’s either you completely stop your lovemaking session or carry on but not have the same levels of pleasure you’d like to have.

Jogging fixes this by getting your muscles used to strenuous movement. Since your leg muscles are already accustomed to constant exertion of force, you won’t ever have to deal with unexpected and rather annoying pains while getting busy between the sheets.

You won’t have sexual anxiety again.

Sexual anxiety is a type of extreme worry most men go through when they feel that they aren’t giving their lovers the pleasure they’ve always wanted in bed. Besides prematurely ejaculating, guys who experience sexual anxiety can also have problems getting a stable erection.

Making it a habit to spend at least fifteen minutes jogging daily encourages the production of dopamine in your brain, giving you a natural high that, in turn, makes you happier and more confident. And that also includes becoming more self-assured between the sheets, which also makes achieving a stable erection a breeze.

Learn two very important pointers about biking and possible erectile dysfunction...

Learn two very important pointers about biking and possible erectile dysfunction…

Biking is definitely one of the best total body workouts you can do to keep your heart and muscles in great shape.

And if your heart is in great condition, you’re not only guaranteed to keep your ability to get stable erections up to par. You’re also ensuring that you will always be ready for some action between the sheets with your lover when things get sizzling in the bedroom.

However, there are two very important things you need to keep in mind to make sure that you’ll only maximize the benefits you get out of biking. Sure biking may be a very good exercise, but not knowing these can easily lead to disaster.

And I’m specifically talking about erectile dysfunction.

So if you’re planning to keep on getting hard on demand while being an avid cyclist at the same time, here are a couple of pointers you need to always need to take note of…

Your choice of saddle is critical.

When it comes to biking, going for the right saddle or bike seat is one of the most important factors you should keep in mind or else you’ll have problems getting rock hard on demand in the long run.

Most cycling newbies tend to go for saddles that only look nice. They don’t really check if it gives them a smooth ride while taking their bikes on the road or the trail. Unfortunately, not having the right saddles can easily pinch the perineum, or the patch of skin that links the anus and scrotum, and possibly damage the veins and arteries that connect to the penis.

Apart from obstructing the blood flow to the penis, continuously pinching the perineum can also lead to the loss of penile sensation during sex.

What’s really scary is that the whole thing starts out as a tingling sensation in your groin area and develops into chronic numbness if not taken care of immediately. Some people simply brush it off as something normal when biking and suffer the consequences in the bedroom the least they expect it.

The length of time you spend on your bike counts, too.

Sure biking is one of the best exercises you can take on to keep your body healthy but overdoing it can rather lead to disaster. Although cycling 3 to 4 hours a week is ideal to give your heart and muscles a workout, spending the same number of hours biking every day is just unreasonable. No matter how careful you are or how appropriate your saddle is, you’ll eventually feel something unpleasant sooner or later.

Here are a few signs that can help you know if she like you...

Here are a few signs that can help you know if she like you…

A lot of men think that women are extremely tough to decode when it comes to knowing if they’re interested romance-wise.

However, this isn’t true.

Sure this may sound surprising, but women actually send out somewhat obvious cues when they’re really into a guy. So if you’re still having a tough time determining if a woman you like feels the same way about you, here are a few signs that you should keep in mind…

She leans in to talk to you.

This is perhaps the most obvious sign that she likes you. Women unknowingly become more outgoing when they are attracted to a guy. Besides sitting or standing closer to you than usual, they also appear to be very interested about the subject being discussed.

She laughs easily.

Now while getting humor into play is a surefire technique to attract a woman, seeing one laughing at almost everything you say is a clear indication that she likes you. Just make sure not to overdo it though like popping an off-color joke or something similar since it can instantly ruin the mood.

She touches you casually.

Touching is an unconscious way of telling a person that you care. So if you’re getting a casual pat here and a caress there from her, chances are she is attracted to you. Make sure you don’t take advantage of this by trying to touch her all over or else she’ll have a change of heart sooner than you think.

She invites you to try her food or drink.

Asking another person to give your drink or food a taste is an unconscious sign that you have a certain affinity with him or her. The next time she invites you rather enthusiastically to give her glass of wine or pasta a try, this already gives you an idea how she feels about you.

She copies your movements.

“Mirroring” is an activity seen among primates and mammals when they’re trying to attract another of their species as a mate. This is also something demonstrated by humans when they’re with someone they like. The next time you see a woman copying your mannerisms and movements, you can safely assume that she’s interested in you.

She doesn’t mind taking off her jacket or coat in front of you.

As I have pointed out earlier, women tend to become a bit more outgoing than usual when they’re with a guy they like. Some don’t even mind taking off articles of clothing like jackets and coats in front of a man they’re interested in. If this happens to you, just imagine the other things she won’t mind taking off for you if you play your cards right