I’m not trying to scare you but she could be already daydreaming about being in the arms of another man right now, if you’re not very careful. A lot of men lose their girlfriends because they simply got too cocky in their relationships and it could happen to you as well.
No matter how long you’ve been together as a couple, not knowing how to keep her as loyal to you as possible can easily lead to her breaking up with you – or worse, eventually cheating on you.
There’s no need to worry just yet though. So if you’re looking to keep her faithful to you, here are a few important tips that you should keep in mind…
Take time to compliment her.
Now while this may sound surprising, giving your girlfriend sincere compliments regularly draws her closer to you. Expressing your admiration for the attributes you like about her not just makes her happier by increasing the dopamine levels in her brain, but also makes it easier for her to share her feelings with you.
Don’t just tell her you like the color of her eyes or you find the dress she’s wearing nice. Although physical compliments are welcome, make it a point to admire your girlfriend’s abstract traits like her being loving or thoughtful for maximum effect.
Empathize with her.
Empathy means being sensitive with the feelings of other people. Make it a point to do this when things aren’t going smoothly between you and your girlfriend. Besides understanding why she’s acting and feeling that way, you’re also knowing her better while at it.
The next time you have an argument or simply not agreeing on a few things, put yourself in her shoes. Chances are she’ll see you as a mature, sensitive guy, which translates to being a keeper in a woman’s dictionary.
A lot of men mistakenly think that romancing their girlfriends is simply foreplay or some other sexual connotation. It’s rather about doing things that make her fall head over heels in love with you over and over.
Simple ways to pull this off include surprising her with flowers, calling her at the office just to say sweet nothings, hiding love notes in her books as well as cooking for her when she least expects it. Improving your massaging skills is a cool strategy, too.