Why Your Lover Isn’t Going Down On You

These are the possible reasons why she's not giving you a blowjob.

These are the possible reasons why she’s not giving you a blowjob.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably think that getting a blowjob from your lover is definitely one of the hottest things that can happen during sex.

However, making your partner want to go south of the border on you can be a bit of a challenge if you don’t know a few useful pointers. Unlike in porn movies, successfully pulling it off is more than just making a beeline to your crotch the next time you feel a bit frisky.

But here’s the catch. There are actually mistakes that stop you from raising your chances of getting a blowjob from your lover and they’re not as tough to keep clear of as you think.

So if you’re looking to convince your lover to give you, let’s say, a bit of “oral attention” the next time you get between the sheets, here are the possible mistakes that are hindering you from getting it…

Blowjob tip #1: You don’t warm her up the right way.

No matter how hard you try, you can never convince your lover to give you a blowjob if she’s not properly warmed up for sex. Women basically become more adventurous in bed if you push their buttons appropriately.

Although it would be really nice if you can get her to give you oral action at the drop of a hat, it’s just plain impossible to do that. Get her as sexually aroused as you can first and you may get extremely lucky sooner or later.

Blowjob tip #2: You don’t go down on her yourself.

Keeping the Golden Rule in mind is very useful if you’d like to get a blowjob from your lover. You can’t just expect her to give you some if you’re not going down on her yourself. Treat her like you want to be treated in bed and she might just return back the favor the least you expect it.

Always remember to stimulate her vagina and clitoris like you want your penis to be pleasured. No matter what you do, never rush things while you’re at it or else she will just only feel that she doesn’t have to give you the same treatment down there when it’s her turn either.

Blowjob tip #3: You don’t ask her what she wants in bed.

Now while you may already have an idea of the things that give your lover the most sexual satisfaction, it’s still smart to ask her just to make sure. Besides making her feel that you want to give her an unforgettable time in bed each time you make love, you’ll also know how to give her orgasm after mind-blowing orgasm while at it. Plus, she’s likely to “blow” your mind as well if she’s satisfied enough. How’s that for two for two?

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