Giving your lover a massage is not just a great way to soothe her tired muscles. It’s also a smart tactic to warm her up for sex…if you just know a few handy tricks that you should do before getting into action.
Unlike what most men think, giving your partner an unforgettable massage isn’t just about how good you are at kneading her muscles. It also involves knowing what factors to keep an eye on to make sure she’ll enjoy every bit of it.
Surprise your lover the next time you give her a massage by keeping these tips in mind…
Clean up your act.
Now while this may sound surprising, not taking time to prep up the place where you’ll do magic with your fingertips can easily screw the whole thing up. Women are basically sticklers for cleanliness and organization. Your lover won’t be able to fully relax if she thinks that the room where you’ll give her a massage isn’t clean and organized enough.
Make sure you give the room a meticulous cleaning and remove any clutter. Put on fresh pillows and sheets as well as change the drapes. Remember to integrate accents like scented candles and essential oils in the mix to give her the notion that you really took the time and effort to give her an unforgettable massage.
Having a little soak won’t hurt.
A soothing bath is a nice way to start relaxing your lover’s muscles even before you really got started with your massage. Although the usual soap and water combo will already suffice, adding in fragrant oils and similar aromatics will definitely take her pleasure levels off the charts.
Make it a point to personally prepare her bath. Apart from making your lover feel extra special and earn extra brownie points in the process, she won’t also have to do a lot of movement that will tire her muscles even more.
Have all the tools of the trade.
Don’t even think about giving her a massage if you still don’t have all the tools you need to give her one that she will remember for a very long time. Besides assembling a kit with lotion, talcum powder and similar massaging essentials, you also need to have a few towels handy to make sure she’ll stay cozy and warm when you knead her muscles.
A nice playlist is extremely important.
You can entice your lover’s senses even more by putting up a nice playlist for you to groove on while you massage her. Go for smooth tunes that are generally slow and easy to listen. The best genres to pick are ballads, rhythm and blues, instrumental as well as jazz.