February 2013 Archives

You don't have to empty your bank account on Valentine's Day to make your wife special.

You don’t have to empty your bank account on Valentine’s Day to make your wife special.

Most men tend to think that Valentine’s Day can be very stressful. They mistakenly believe that emptying their wallets is a prerequisite if they want to make it as amazing and romantic as possible.

However, you’re sure to take your celebration of Valentine’s Day this year up a notch if you check out the rest of this article. Below I’ll show you a few tricks that will help you nail your valentine’s day gift without ruining your budget in the process.

Make your own Valentine’s Day gifts.

Instead of rushing to the store to get your hands on overpriced Valentine’s presents, why not get your creative juices flowing and make your very own gifts? You can write your wife a romantic poem, make her a sweet greeting card or even a personalized souvenir to show your better half how much she means to you. This is best done a few days ahead.

Surprise her with breakfast in bed.

Sure you may not be the most talented cook in the world but you can easily set the mood for romance on Valentine’s Day if you make her breakfast. While you’re at it, why not up the ante and serve it in bed? Just remember to go for her favorite treats when making your Valentine’s breakfast menu and you’re good to go.

Send her sweet nothings all day.

With the advent of modern mobile phones, you can send your spouse a bevy of romantic messages with ease during Valentine’s Day. Be it sweet reminders that you can’t wait to see her for your dinner date after work or perhaps a preview of what she’s in for in the bedroom when you two get alone, don’t be afraid to be a bit cheesy in the process. On Valentine’s Day, the cheesier, the better.

Give her a massage.

Kneading your wife’s tired muscles won’t just make her feel very special on Valentine’s Day but will also boost your chances of getting her sexy side going in no time at all. You can easily get access to superb massaging pointers using the Internet. Jazz it up with aromatic oils to make the experience even more wonderful and a sizzling Valentine’s Day is literally at your fingertips.

Take her for a drive.

Nothing beats rekindling your love as a couple on Valentine’s Day than a romantic drive around town. Visit memorable places you’ve been to when you two were still dating and let the sweet memories take you back. Top it all off with a visit to a well-known make out point and you, my friend, are definitely in for great things to come. Here are a few superb pointers how to be a better kisser to wow her easily.

 

You will be surprised how easy it is to keep your girlfriend loyal to you.

You will be surprised how easy it is to keep your girlfriend loyal to you.

Sure, infidelity may not be as rampant among women as it is among us guys but you could lose your girlfriend when you least expect it if you’re not very careful. Believe it or not, there are actually secrets to make your girlfriend loyal to you in a relationship and keep it that way. Read on to learn how to do just that in 4 easy ways.

Keep her as attracted to you as possible.

Most men tend to become a bit careless when they finally get the girl of their dreams. They don’t try to woo their girlfriends as they did when they were still dating or look as presentable to them as before. Just because she fell in love with you it doesn’t mean that she won’t fall out of love with you sooner or later. Keep her as attracted to you as you can. (And these might be the reasons why she’s not that eager to get between the sheets with you these days…)

Appreciate her as much as you can.

Making your girlfriend feel appreciated is a great way to keep her as loyal to you as possible. Thank her for the things she does for you each day no matter how insignificant they may be to you. Don’t forget to say thank you when she cooks you a meal. Compliment her choice of apparel and perfume. Tell her how much she means to you. The bottom line is… Make her feel the most loved woman in the world each time the opportunity presents itself and she’ll stick to you like a magnet.

Don’t bark orders at her.

Always remember to use loving language with her no matter what. Things might get rough in your relationship along the way but never make her feel like you’re her drill sergeant ever. It’s alright to be angry with her at times but never use strong words that will make her feel unloved. Women are very sensitive to verbal cues and if you cross the line, it is possible that she could have a wandering eye for another man without you knowing.

Spend time with her.

Neglecting your girlfriend is a very big no-no when you want to her cement her loyalty to you. If she wants to see you, make it a point to be with her no matter where she is or what time it is. Being with her when she needs you gives her the feeling that you’re a keeper and she won’t even think about being in the arms of another man ever.

You will always give her the massage she wants with these tips.

You will always give her the massage she wants with these tips.

Nothing beats kneading your wife’s or girlfriend’s tired muscles when it comes to scoring points in the sensuality department.

There are a few things to take note of, however, if you’re looking to give her the sensation overload that she’s always wanted. Let me key you in the massaging mistakes to avoid to make your next one unforgettable.

Not starting with the right environment.

Before you bust out your massaging chops, prepping up the room where the action happens should be your very first priority. Make sure you clean it up as much as you can and try to keep the look as minimalist as possible. The more relaxed it looks, the cozier it feels.

Not having the right tools in your arsenal.

Sure, dry massages may be very relaxing but you can easily take the experience up a notch if you have an aromatic oil or two to work with. Besides making your strokes and movements smoother by providing lubrication, the amazing smells are will drive her wild as well.

Not having the right ambiance.

Make her feel like she’s getting a full spa treatment. Don’t be afraid to get in touch with your feminine side while doing this. Should you dim the lights a bit? What kind of pillows would she like? Brainstorm all the things you can do to add more ambiance.

Not putting on nice tunes.

Playing the right music while you’re giving your sweetheart a massage not only takes away the tension from her weary muscles but also makes her more relaxed while you’re doing magic with your fingers. Try Googling “spa music” if you’re still having a tough time choosing which album to go for.

Not keeping it slow and easy until you finish.

Massages are supposed to be slow and gentle to make them as relaxing as possible. Taking things fast will only ruin the mood. While you need to give each of your strokes a firm touch to apply the most amount of sensation, remember to take it slow and easy at all times.

Not brushing up on your massaging know-how.

Having a trick or two up your sleeve when you’re giving her a massage is absolutely a plus. Take the time to research specific massaging techniques so know how to knead her tired muscles and before long you’ll have the skills to give her the best massage ever. How about checking out these foreplay tips that will surely drive her wild while you’re at it?

You'll never believe how significant the mind is when it comes to lasting longer in bed.

You’ll never believe how significant the mind is when it comes to lasting longer in bed.

While this may surprise you, preventing premature ejaculation isn’t just about knowing the right positions or knowing when your arousal levels are off the charts.

If you’re looking to avoid premature ejaculation, knowing how to control the psychological factors that influence stamina in the bedroom is just as important.

Let me key you in on some important details and some misconceptions about preventing premature ejaculation…

#1 – Premature ejaculation is not a physical problem.

Most men tend to think that the reason why they are ejaculating quickly during sex is that their penises are just too sensitive. While there is some scientific evidence to this claim… which has found that the tissues that make up the penis are inherently reactive to the vagina’s interior, sensitivity alone does not control the ejaculation process in any way.

#2 – Premature ejaculation can’t be stopped with over-the-counter creams and pills.

You may have seen online ads about artificial creams and medications that claim to hold off premature ejaculation but chances are they’ll never work like advertised. No matter how magical they may claim to be, you will just end up coming sooner than you like on your next sex session.

#3 – Premature ejaculation can’t be prevented with just a change in the position.

Just changing from missionary to doggy style won’t keep premature ejaculation at bay. Although the slight break in the action will somewhat curb your urge to orgasm, it’s still not a guaranteed method to avoid coming too quickly.

Now that we’ve got the common misconceptions covered, let’s get to the reasons why the right mindset is the best way to stave off premature ejaculation:

Mental conditioning helps you relax more.

Visualizing that you’re going to give your wife or girlfriend the sexual satisfaction she wants before actually making love makes you more comfortable in bed. Thus, helping you last longer while at it.

Take it to the next level by making the experience all about her satisfaction and you will be surprised how resilient you’ll become against premature ejaculation.

Practice makes perfect.

Practicing visualizing yourself lasting longer in the bedroom each day is just like learning how to play the piano. The more you do it, the better you’ll become and the finer the results will be. Why not try this visualizing technique tonight and surprise your partner when you make love?