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Winning her back again is not as complicated as you think.

Winning her back again is not as complicated as you think.

Breakups can be tough, but winning your ex-girlfriend back can be even tougher. If you’re still having trouble zooming in on superb tips to convince your old flame to come back to you, you’ve come to the right place. I have just the pointers to help you easily do that.

Assess your role in the relationship.

Before you even attempt to persuade her to get back with you in a romantic relationship, spending time to reflect why she left you in the first place should be your very first priority. How were you as a boyfriend? Can you honestly call yourself a good one? What mistakes did you commit that made her leave you? Mull over these factors meditatively and take note of them. How were you in bed? Did you know how to stimulate her breasts the right way?

Apologize sincerely.

Making up with your ex-girlfriend is essential if you’re planning to get back with her in the long run. Apologizing for your mistakes in your relationship not only becomes the catalyst for forgiveness but also eases the pain and resentment your ex-girlfriend is going through.

Listen to what she has to say.

To fully understand why your romantic relationship broke apart, it is best to put yourself in her shoes. To do that, you have to invite her for a serious discussion to find out how she really feels about losing you as a lover. While this may not guarantee that you’ll get back together, you’re sure to learn a lot of vital information to be a better boyfriend when you do engage in a relationship in the future.

Avoid contacting her.

No, this doesn’t mean that you should avoid communicating with your ex-girlfriend altogether. You should rather keep clear from calling or sending her text messages as frequently as you would have when you were still in a committed relationship. This way, you are making her miss you unconsciously. Plus, you’ll never know when she will be the one initiating contact if you just play your cards right.

Don’t beg. Ever.

Begging her to take you back as her boyfriend is perhaps the biggest no-no when winning your ex-girlfriend is concerned. Besides being a sign of weakness and desperation, you’ll just make a fool of yourself while at it. When you feel the urge to call her at 3 AM to ask her to get back with you, you’ll just make the whole thing worse no matter how smart you think your prepared speech is.

Let her be the one leading you to bed with these foreplay tips.

Let her be the one leading you to bed with these foreplay tips.

Women don’t get hot and ready for some bedroom action at a drop of a hat like men do. With a few superb foreplay tips, however, you’re guaranteed to get the job licked (pun intended) in no time at all. Make sure you give the rest of this article a careful read through to learn a few foreplay pointers that will definitely get your wife or girlfriend going.

Let her anticipate.

Believe it or not, anticipation is perhaps one of the best tools you can use to take her arousal levels off the charts. Don’t immediately zero in on her erogenous zones the moment things get steamy in the bedroom. Stall for time getting your wife’s or girlfriend’s top off or unbuttoning her jeans. The excitement and anticipation in the process will get her senses all fired up and leave her begging you for more.

Talk dirty to her.

While most men think that getting physical is the only way to get their partners in the mood for sex, whispering kinky things in her ear can also give you the same results. Tell her in graphic detail the things you’ll do to her during your lovemaking session as well as the stuff you know that turns her on and chances are she’ll be up for a round of mind-blowing sex in no time.

Don’t rush things.

Unless your wife or girlfriend is into rough sex, taking things slow and easy is the way to go when doing foreplay with your partner. Spend a few minutes concentrating on a specific erogenous zone like her neck, back of the ears or breasts. You will know you’re doing a good job heating your partner up when her breathing gets a bit faster and she’s moaning like crazy. Use your lips, fingers and tongue at the same time to give her a sexual sensation overload that she will never forget.

Give her just the tip.

Remember the anticipation pointer I told you about earlier? You can make your wife or girlfriend go wild with sexual tension if you just insert the tip of your penis in her vagina when she expects the full treatment. Don’t forget to rub your member over her clitoris and outer labia and get ready to see the full wild sexual side of your partner in action. (Now’s your cue to brush up on your Kegel exercises to last longer in bed and give her the sexual satisfaction she’s always wanted.)

 

Here are the tips you need to make the girl of your dreams go out with you easily.

Here are the tips you need to make the girl of your dreams go out with you easily.

Asking a woman out is by far one of the toughest things to do for most men. Sure, all you actually have to do is step up and invite her for a date, but putting it into action is a whole different story.

Believe it or not, there are actually easy ways to ask the girl of your dreams out for a date and get a positive answer. If you’re still finding it difficult to get the job done, here are the tips you need to take note of to kick off your successful dating career in no time at all:

Do a bit of research.

Make it a point to know as much as you can about a potential date before you ask her out. No, this doesn’t mean you’ll have to become a creeper on Facebook or some kind of stalker in the process. You just have to learn key points about her routine so you won’t have trouble convincing her to say yes sooner or later.

Where does she go to lunch? What’s her favorite blend of coffee? Where does she hang out after work or classes? Is she a fan of chocolates? What’s her favorite brand of beer or sandwich? You’re already halfway there when you get these pieces of information right down to pat.

“Casual” is the word.

Getting asked out for a formal date can be rather unnerving in a woman’s perspective. If you’re looking to wrap up the job with flying colors, simplifying your idea of one is the way to go. Making it as casual as you can is absolutely your best option.

Instead of inviting her for dinner at a fancy restaurant, ask her out instead to grab a couple of beers or a bite of her favorite comfort food at her preferred bar. Since you’re taking her somewhere she’s really familiar with to do something she likes, the possibility of her saying no is close to nil.

Don’t hesitate to meet and socialize with her friends.

While this may sound rather odd, mingling with your potential date’s friends is a good strategy to successfully ask her out in the future. Apart from being reliable sources of information about the girl of your dreams, they can be also your golden ticket to finally invite her for a date once and for all.

Moreover, don’t be reluctant to go on a group date with her friends when the opportunity presents itself. This is a superb way to build up your relationship with her along the way. Birds of the same feather flock together and if her friends like you, you’re already in the clear for a date with the girl you fancy before you know it. (Now that we’ve got that covered, here are some pointers how to avoid awkward first dates.)

Improve your confidence around women with these surefire tips.

Improve your confidence around women with these surefire tips.

As the popular maxim goes, “with confidence, you have already won before you started.” Well, the only problem is that the attribute of being self-assured around women doesn’t come natural to most men. If you’re looking to boost your confidence around the members of the opposite sex, here are 5 tips that will help you do just that:

Start by looking and smelling like a debonair.

Believe it or not, knowing that you smell and look nice instantly boosts your self-confidence around women. Make it a point to prep carefully when you go out for a social event and you’ll be surprised how much your disposition will change for the better. Plus, women naturally have a soft spot for men who have inviting visual and nasal cues.

Don’t even think about comparing yourself to another man.

While men tend to be very competitive with each other (especially around women), never even let the idea of comparing yourself to other gents get to you if you’re aiming to become more confident around pretty girls. It really doesn’t matter if the other guy is taller or is more well-endowed in the financial department. Impressing a woman you fancy is all about showing her why you’re a hot commodity and that won’t be a problem if you just demonstrate a cool composure the whole time.

Plan ahead.

Having a strategy how you will impress the ladies before actually meeting them is a good way to be more confident around the members of the opposite sex. Whether you’re loading up on interesting stories that will brighten up even the most trivial discussions or perhaps learning a magic trick or two, you’ll definitely feel more self-assured when you get into action.

Stay positive.

Thinking that something wrong will happen even before you interact with women will almost always lead to disaster. Apart from increasing your chances of having an anxiety attack in the process, you’ll also have problems behaving properly around them if you’re anticipating that an untoward event will occur unexpectedly. Just stay cool and you’ll be okay.

Practice being confident.

Confidence shouldn’t be just demonstrated when you’re around attractive women. Make it a point to show other people how self-assured you are whenever you can. Remember to wave to your neighbors when they pass by. Smile at the people you meet on the street. Make friends with the waiter serving you for lunch. In time, you’ll just be surprised how naturally confident you are already. (Why not seal the deal by learning how to ask the girl of your dreams for a date the right way?)