Sex for married couples can sometimes be a bit monotonous. Husbands and wives tend to become very familiar with each other over the years that pushing each other’s sensual buttons in the bedroom has become all but a boring routine. So let me ask you a question; you on a sexual slump with your wife?
Maintaining an exciting sexual relationship with your spouse can be quite a challenge after a decade or more of being married. Apart from becoming swamped with commitments like kids, careers and other important tasks, there are also times when you feel you don’t connect with your partner sexually anymore.
There’s no need to worry just yet though if you’re going through the same situation. Here are a few surefire tips that will have you doing the horizontal mambo with your wife like you did during your honeymoon phase in no time at all:
- Stop thinking of her as your wife. Remember the days when you two seem to can’t get your hands off each other? Well, great sex doesn’t have to end when you’re married. You just have to let your imagination run wild and stop thinking of her as your wife. Imagine her as your dirty French maid who’s got a nasty case of nymphomania or a naughty woman looking for an adventure of the sexual kind. The possibilities are just endless if you put your mind to it.
- Make your room conducive for sex. As you may have known by now, the female sexual arousal process is very complicated. If you can’t get her in the mood, you can’t get into action anytime soon. Up the ante on the privacy of your bedroom (meaning, make it off-limits to kids) and you’ll be surprised how fast your wife transforms into a sex vixen the least you expect it.
- Don’t be afraid to explore new things. Doing the same stuff over and over again is the number one deal breaker when it comes to sex with your wife. Instead of just settling with the predictable missionary-with-a-side-of-cunnilingus ensemble, get your fantasies out in the open and integrate fresh elements into the bedroom. You never know what naughty things she has in store for you, too. (Why not sharpen your G-spot stimulation skills while at it so you can wow her like she’s always wanted?)
- Bring back the old sexy times. You can never have too much of a good thing – and too much sex with your wife can easily sap the excitement and passion away. Marriage therapists recommend making your wife miss having sex so she’ll be the one initiating contact and voila…you’re back in business, buddy.