Nothing beats having the right amount of confidence when it comes to hitting it off with the opposite sex. If you’re still having a difficult time boosting your self-esteem, there’s no need to worry just yet. Here are a few pointers that will definitely transform you into a confident Casanova faster than you think:
Start off with a positive mindset. Anticipating that you’ll screw the whole thing up the next time you’re trying make a connection with an attractive woman is the number one deal breaker when it comes to boosting your confidence. Kick off your quest to be more self-confident by simply remembering that you have your very own unique attributes that women will find engaging.
Don’t measure up to other men. Sure there are other male hopefuls who are more endowed in the looks and financial department but it’s not reason enough to think you won’t have any chance pairing up with the girl of your dreams. Confidence is the ultimate turn on among women. If you have it, you’re certainly good to go. However, having too much of it can lead to disaster so keep your confidence levels in check at all times.
Stay as truthful as you can. Making a woman like you by being a phony is perhaps the most despicable trick in the book. Pretending to know famous people and lying about your job will only lead to nowhere. Don’t fib about the books you read or the movies you like as well. No matter how tempting it is, never embellish things when you’re sharing intimate details with an attractive woman. She can easily see through your ruse and when she does, it’s game over.
Practice being confident at all times. Showing your self-confidence is not just restricted to social mixers and first dates. Say hi to your neighbors when you meet them on the street. Greet your local grocer. Pat a pooch at the park. Make friends with the waiter the next time you order an entree. The list to practice demonstrating confidence is just endless. (How about learning some surefire dating tips while at it?)
Smell and look like a million bucks. Of all the stimuli in women, visual and nasal cues top the lineup. The long and short of it, women won’t be that attracted to you if you don’t smell or look nice. Apart from spiking your self-confidence levels knowing you look and smell like a keeper, you’ll never believe how a clean shave, a shower, a nice spritz of cologne and chic apparel will make when you are around women.