There is a very fine line between scoring a second date and a disaster if you don’t have the right know-how when you take out the girl of your dreams. If you’re looking to make a good first impression and build a romantic connection with your date at the same time, then you’ve definitely come to the right place.
Besides showing you a few pointers that are guaranteed to land you another date, I will also include one of my best-kept secrets that will instantly transform you into a certified Casanova without a hitch. Make sure to give the rest of this article a thorough read-through to upgrade your dating skills right away.
Location counts a lot. Believe it or not, the challenge of impressing your date actually begins when you choose where you’ll have the big event. While going for a place that’s too ritzy might give her the idea that you’re trying too hard, selecting a shabby one might end up being anything but favorable. Settle for a venue that’s simple and enjoyable for the both of you like her favorite bar or deli (yours works just as well).
Be a go-getter. Confidence is perhaps one of the biggest turn-ons among women. If you can show her how cool and self-reliant you are without being too arrogant, then you, my friend, are certainly on your way to a second date. On the other hand, acting like you left the stove on at home – or wimpy, if you’d like a better adjective – will only have her looking for an excuse to be someplace else.
Dress up like it’s a high-profile job interview. Visual and nasal cues are the most prominent stimuli among women and if you look and smell good on your first date, you’re guaranteed to score another if you play your cards right. Make sure you go for classy yet comfortable apparel that will sweep her off her feet as soon as she sees you. Unless you like Brad Pitt, keep in mind to lay off the grungy pair of jeans and college shirt you consider as your “casual ensemble” no matter how cool you think you look in them.
Chivalry is a definite plus. Being a gentleman means more than just helping your date sit comfortably and opening doors for her. It means making her feel like royalty the whole time she’s with you. Make it a point to listen to every word she says, call the waiter for her and lend her your coat when the weather turns a bit frosty. Next thing you know, she’ll be hinting about a second night out without a fuss.
It pays to be ready. You just never know what will happen during the course of your date, buddy. Updating your sexual playbook before a first date is optional but certainly an advantage. Make sure you already know how to properly stimulate and satisfy her in bed as well as learning the secrets of stopping premature ejaculation just in case your date becomes rather steamy.