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Don't wait until it's too late. Here are the secrets to win her back again without a hitch.

Don’t wait until it’s too late. Here are the secrets to win her back again without a hitch.

Winning back an old flame can be quite a challenge even for the most gifted Casanova. However, with a bit of know-how and a lot of determination thrown in for good measure, it isn’t entirely impossible to pull off either. If you still think that your ex-girlfriend is the one you’d rather spend the rest of your life with, then this is the place to be.

Apart from showing you a few tricks that are guaranteed to significantly raise your chances of getting back with your ex, I’ll also include a sensual secret that will surely make your relationship even stronger the next time around. Make sure you give the following tips and pointers a thorough read-through right away to help you get started in a snap:

Use reverse psychology. No matter how sincere your intentions may be, calling up your ex-girlfriend excessively or sending her one too many text messages after you broke up can make her feel rather harassed and stalked instead of being remembered fondly. Although it can be very difficult at first, avoid contacting your ex in any way for at least three to four weeks.

Trust me, the results are worth it. Besides being a very effective technique to start making your ex-girlfriend miss you, chances are she’ll initiate opening the communication lines back again herself when she remembers how much she needs you in her life sooner or later.

Re-assess yourself as the other half of the relationship. If your ex-girlfriend broke up with you, it’s probably because you messed up. Maybe you’ve been neglecting her, not exerting enough effort make her feel appreciated, not listening to what she has to say or perhaps not spending adequate with her.

Maybe your ex was just shrugging these negative feelings off all along until she couldn’t take them anymore and decided to break up with you. Make it a point to find out what your shortcomings in the relationship were and promise to change them for the better when given another chance – or else go through another break up again. Permanently, this time around.

Learn to last longer in bed. Sex is one of the most important components of a stable romantic relationship. Did you ever ask your ex-girlfriend even once if she was fully satisfied after you went for a roll in the hay? How many times can you honestly say that you’ve given her an orgasm? This is the time to acknowledge your mistakes (including the ones outside the bedroom), express regret and learn the finer points of how to stop premature ejaculation. Promise her that you’ll make it up to her and more when she gives you another chance and you’re good to go.

Keeping her as faithful as possible isn't as complicated as you think.

Keeping her as faithful as possible isn’t as complicated as you think.

If you are like many men across the globe, making sure that your wife or girlfriend doesn’t cheat on you can be a big concern. While infidelity may not be as rampant among women as it is among guys, there is still a chance that she’ll have a wandering eye sooner or later if you’re not very careful.

Sure you and your partner may be in a very stable relationship now but someone else just might come along without warning if you don’t know how to prevent the whole thing from happening. Make sure you check out the following tips and pointers right away to find out the secrets of making her stay as faithful as ever:

Make her feel like royalty in your life. Believe it or not, prompting your wife or girlfriend to look for love and affection in the arms of another man is nobody else’s fault but yours. Most guys tend to forget that nurturing a romantic relationship is a long-term commitment and gradually begin unconsciously taking their partners for granted. Just remember to make her feel as important and attractive as the day you began dating and you’re definitely on the right track.

Mix things up. Have you ever watched the same movie that you once loved over and over again until you just became totally sick and tired of it? If you’re not careful, your relationship with your wife or girlfriend can be just like that. If you don’t change things up or integrate a sense of spontaneity along the way, chances are you’ll be cheated on in the long run. Whether it’s the places you take her for dates or the sex positions in your lovemaking arsenal, be sure to mix things up regularly and you’re good to go.

Look and smell delicious. It doesn’t mean that because she’s already your wife or girlfriend that you don’t need to impress her anymore. Make sure you stay as attractive to her as before just to guarantee that she won’t think about cheating on you even once. Remember to exercise regularly, maintain a healthy diet and just to take things up a notch, learn how to give her mind-blowing oral sex and she’ll never leave you.

Don’t forget to apologize for anything you did wrong. If you can’t remember the last time you asked forgiveness from your partner, then she may be building up resentment towards you. No matter how insignificant the argument may be for you, it might mean a great deal to your wife or girlfriend. Make it a point to apologize for any arguments you may have started or anything that may have upset her that you regret doing and remind her of the major role she plays in your relationship.

Having a successful one isn't just pure luck; it's a form of art. Learn how to get the job done.

Having a successful date isn’t just pure luck; it’s a form of art. Learn how to get the job done.

So you’ve finally got the chance to go on a first date with the girl of your dreams. Now what? Having a successful one isn’t just pure luck; it’s a form of art. If you’re still wracking your brains on how you’re going to get the job done on the ever-intimidating first date, I’ll show you the tips and tricks that are guaranteed to sweep your date off her feet and earn you a second romantic rendezvous – or even more – in no time at all.

Hold your head up high. When it comes to first dates, having enough confidence (or the lack of it) can instantly make or break your chances of taking her out again soon. Sure a first date can be very intimidating but keep in mind that she agreed to go out with you in the first place. Isn’t that something to be proud of already?

Have a plan. Women hate going out with wimpy men who always ask them what to do. Make sure you’ve got your first date all figured out right to the smallest details to avoid giving her the impression that you don’t have the initiative. Keep it as relaxed as possible, too, so stay away from four-course dinners and similar options that could feel very committal. While staying gentle and courteous with your date is a priority at all times, it is also a must that you show her that you’re always in control of the situation.

Take time to prep up. Visual and nasal cues are the strongest stimuli in the opposite sex. This means that how you look and smell during your first date can be either your ticket to another night out with her some other time or the end of the line. Remember to take a shower, shave off that rather unkempt stubble, splash on some deodorant as well as put on real clothes instead of that Metallica-Rules-tee-and-jeans combo you may have been wearing since college days and you’re good to go.

Make her feel special. Your date has just spent a long time getting ready and it’s not enough that you know you’re going out with a beautiful woman. Instead, you have to tell her how amazing she looks. Sincerely complimenting her on the things that she obviously took time and effort with like her hair, clothes and shoes won’t just make her feel appreciated but eases a lot of the first date jitters as well. Keep in mind not to butter her up just for the sake of complimenting or else she’ll see through your ruse and take them as lies.

Keep the conversation flowing naturally. You don’t have to lie about your job or the books you’ve read to impress a woman on your first date. Knowing how to listen carefully to what she’s saying and remembering the key details already makes her feel more comfortable spending time with you. Once you are able to successfully change the atmosphere to a “date” rather than an “interview,” you’re definitely in for more exciting possibilities soon.

Don’t expect too much. Having a first date doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re already on your way to a more serious romantic relationship with the girl of your dreams. Avoid rushing things. Do not be overconfident that she’s really into you. Let her initiate the first kiss. Let her be the one inviting you over at her place for a nightcap. Always wait for her lead or else you’ll be sorry. (In case you do get lucky, here are some superb ways to extend your bedroom playing time in one easy read.)

Wow your partner the next time you make love with these naturally effective sexual stamina boosters.

Wow your partner the next time you make love with these naturally effective sexual stamina boosters.

If you’ve ever wondered why your wife or girlfriend isn’t that enthusiastic to get between the sheets with you any more, perhaps it’s high time you improved your sexual stamina.

While most men think that successfully doing just that requires medication and similar artificial means, I’ll show you totally natural effective ways to take your sexual stamina up a notch when you give the following pointers a browse right away:

Masturbate more often. Going solo is a great way to gauge your sexual arousal levels and even gives you an idea when you are most likely to reach orgasm and ejaculate. Apart from helping you get to know your sensitivity better you’ll definitely have a fun time in the process as well. How’s that for hitting two birds with one stone?

Make foreplay a star in your sex playbook. Giving attention to your partner’s erogenous zones should not be seen as a prelude to intercourse but as a major lovemaking component. Foreplay won’t just help you take some of the sexual edge off that could lead to premature ejaculation but will also make her reach the point of no return over and over again. Be sure to check out these G-spot stimulation techniques to find out how it’s done.

Have the right mindset. Obsessing over the thought that you’ll come a tad too quickly is a surefire recipe for premature ejaculation. Thinking about baseball or some other non-sexual thought can also lead to decreased intensity in bed and erectile dysfunction if overdone as well. Prioritize your wife’s or girlfriend’s satisfaction the next time you do the deed and you’ll be surprised how much longer you’ll last.

Put on your running shoes. Exercising half an hour a day for at least three times a week won’t just do wonders for your heart and muscles but will also prolong your endurance when going for a roll in the hay with your partner. Moreover, sweating it out regularly keeps depression and stress at bay that could give you problems getting an erection when you need it, too.

Embrace a healthy lifestyle. Indulging in too much alcohol and tobacco can hamper your chances of giving your wife or girlfriend the sexual satisfaction she deserves. Besides constricting the blood vessels that help you “rise to the occasion,” smoking and drinking heavily can also lead to severe health problems in the long run. While enjoying a glass of your favorite wine or brew daily is alright, smoking should definitely be off your list as soon as you can.