December 2012 Archives

Give your wife or girlfriend something to really smile about when you give these oral sex tips pointers a thorough read-through.

If you can’t remember the last time or still have not given your wife or girlfriend oral sex when you’re getting intimate in the bedroom, you’re definitely missing out a lot.

Apart from being a great form of foreplay that’s guaranteed to take your partner to the point of no return over and over again if done properly, stimulating her down there also helps you last longer the next time you get between the sheets.

Contrary to popular belief, giving a woman unforgettable oral sex each and every time is not as complicated as you think. If you’re still having a tough time taking your ability to go down on your wife or girlfriend up a notch, I have just the best oral sex tips to help you get the job done without a fuss. Wow her like never before when you use the following on your next, let’s say, oral exam:

  • Take things slow. Cunnilingus (yes, that’s the proper term for oral sex on women) is not about yanking down your partner’s underwear and going at it like there’s no tomorrow. Make sure you warm her up first by giving attention to the rest of her body before you get to her vagina and clitoris. Taking time to stimulate her other erogenous zones ensures that she’ll be hot and ready when you get into action.
  • Ask her how she likes it. If you’re not sure how your wife or girlfriend wants to be stimulated down there, don’t be afraid to ask. Most guys tend to avoid asking questions while doing the deed since they don’t want to come off sounding inexperienced when it comes to oral sex. Women have different preferences on cunnilingus and you might just make your partner uncomfortable in the process without the right information. Always remember that if you’re in doubt, just ask away and you’re good to go.
  • Be gentle. At its simplest, the clitoris is a bud-like formation located at the tip of the vagina packed with thousands of sensitive nerve endings. Unless your wife or girlfriend asks otherwise, make it a point to start stimulating it gently, slowly building up speed and intensity as you go. Just to be extra safe, avoid directly licking or stroking the clitoris just until your partner is fully aroused due to its very sensitive nature.
  • Enjoy the experience. Don’t consider going down on your wife or girlfriend as a favor – or worse, as a burden you have to go through just to penetrate her sooner or later. Keep in mind that the more comfortable you are at doing it, the more likely you are to give her an orgasm.

Eager to find out more? Give these superb clitoral stimulation techniques a browse right away to take your oral sex know-how to a whole new higher level.

There are natural (and very effective) ways to get rid of erectile dysfunction. Learn them when you give this a browse.

There are natural (and very effective) ways to get rid of erectile dysfunction. Learn them when you give this post a browse.

If you think you’re a having a tough time “rising up to the occasion” when it comes to getting between the sheets with your wife or girlfriend these days, then this is the place to be. Besides from showing you totally natural (and very effective) tips that are guaranteed to help you keep erectile dysfunction at bay, I will also throw in a secret that is sure to give you longer and harder erections without a fuss.

The lowdown on erectile dysfunction

In a nutshell, erectile dysfunction or impotence is basically the inability to achieve an erection or keep one going long enough to successfully penetrate your partner during sexual intercourse. It is a surprisingly common sexual disorder among adult men around the world and happens to almost every guy – even if only temporarily – at some point in their lives.

Besides preventing you from doing the deed with your wife or girlfriend, erectile dysfunction also can also cause a number of psychological issues that can range from the loss of self-confidence to severe anxiety attacks if ignored. If you’re looking to shake off erectile dysfunction as soon as possible and bring back the fireworks in the bedroom, here are the things that you should take note of right away:

  • Shed off excess pounds. Being overweight doesn’t just make you a strong contender for developing serious diseases like hypertension, diabetes, stroke and cardiovascular problems. It can also significantly reduce blood flow to your penis and can make achieving an erection difficult or even impossible. Make sure you cut back on sweets and fatty foods and load up on fruits and vegetables instead. Exercising for a minimum of an hour or so twice a week greatly helps speed up the weight loss process, too.
  • Lay off alcohol and tobacco. Having one too many drinks each day and smoking like a chimney won’t just put your vital organs at risk of breaking down sooner or later but also constricts your blood vessels. Since the penis needs an ample supply of blood flowing to achieve erection…well, you get the picture. Limit your alcohol intake to a glass of wine or a bottle of beer daily and you’re good to go. As for smoking, just kick the habit as soon as you can.
  • Take time to de-stress. Experiencing too much stress daily can take its toll on your ability to get an erection, not mentioning a whole plethora of other health problems. Whether it’s physical or psychological stress, having too much of it won’t just make your next bedroom party for two a dud but can also potentially cause high blood pressure, migraines as well as gastrointestinal issues. Do not get too emotionally attached to your work or other obligations. When you’re feeling a bit too choked up at the office, taking a vacation can do wonders.
  • Give your PC muscle a workout. There’s no need to worry just yet if you’ve already had an episode of erectile dysfunction or two. Just as I have pointed out earlier, it’s natural for men to go through the experience as long as it doesn’t happen every time you’re getting ready for a lovemaking session. One possible reason is maybe you’re not just exercising your PC muscle regularly. Make that a daily habit and you won’t just get harder and longer erections but orgasms that are out of this world, too!
Ace that date each and every time when you give these pointers a browse right now.

Ace that date each and every time when you give these pointers a browse right now.

When it comes to dating, I truly believe in the adage that “you never get a second chance to make a good first impression.” Why? Because being totally prepared to make a great impression on each date you go on can mean the difference between having another exciting night out with the girl of your dreams or just some predictable weekend tryst with Mary Palmer.

If you’re looking to take your dating skills up a notch, you’ve come to the right place. Assuming you know enough not to show up in your boxer shorts and looking like you’ve just finished a large-scale gardening project, here are a few of my dating tips and tricks that are guaranteed to score you Date Number 2 in no time at all:

  • Invite her for a couple of drinks instead of having dinner. Believe it or not, she is as anxious as you on your first date and sitting through a four-course meal can be more of a boring interview than a stepping stone for romance. Take her instead to your favorite bar in town (hers works just as fine as well), grab a drink or two and get to know each other better in a more relaxed fashion.
  • Don’t act like a phony. Nothing beats ruining your chances of scoring another date sooner or later than acting like a pretentious big shot. Trust is a very big issue among women and they can easily discern if you’re the real deal or just putting on a show. Don’t lie about what you do for a living or the books you’ve read. Just tell it like it is and you’re good to go.
  • Be a good conversationalist. Talking is inevitable during a first date and unless the two of you met at a mime convention, knowing a few pointers on how to get the job done is definitely an advantage. The rule of thumb is to keep the conversation as light and friendly as possible. While you’re both aiming to get to know each other better, revealing too much information in the process can be an instant deal breaker. Keep in mind to make your date ask about the more serious stuff so you’ll appear more mysterious to her.
  • Don’t scrimp on the compliments. For the record, women love to hear how pretty they look, especially on first dates. Make sure you notice the things your date obviously took time and effort with like the way her hair and makeup is done, the clothes she’s wearing and her choice of shoes. Avoid mindlessly buttering her up just for the sake of it, though. Next thing you know, she’ll see through your ruse and it’s game over all of a sudden.
  • It’s okay to be nervous. Most men think that being a bit jittery during a first date is taboo. Contrary to popular belief, experiencing a few minutes of anxiety when you’re out with a woman that you’re looking forward to spend time with is all but natural. However, it’s your job to calm yourself down before you go through the more embarrassing signs of nervousness like facial twitching, excessive sweating, uncontrollable stuttering or worse, sexual performance anxiety, if you’re lucky enough to get the chance to sleep with her. Always remember that confidence is an absolute turn on for the opposite sex and chances are you’ll have to your ticket to Date #2 without a hitch if you show it.
Taking your confidence around women up a notch  isn't as complicated as you think.

Taking your confidence around women up a notch isn’t as complicated as you think.

Sure you may have heard time and again that confidence is the single most attractive asset a man can possess. While your chances of hitting it off with a girl can greatly depend on how confident you are when approaching her, actually getting the confidence you need is easier said than done.

If you feel really intimidated around pretty girls or perhaps have the state of mind that you don’t have any business being with an attractive member of the opposite sex in the first place, there’s no need to worry just yet. I’ll show you a few superb pointers that can help take your confidence level up a notch and finally score you that dream date you’ve always wanted without a fuss.

It all begins with the right mindset.

Anticipating that something will go wrong even before you start chatting with a girl you like is the number one deal breaker when it comes to building confidence. Although having a case of the jitters during a first date or social mixer is quite normal, becoming too anxious can be deadly for your confidence. Just remember that bad things do happen unexpectedly but they’re never as bigger deal as you anticipate and don’t let them stop you from being the cool guy that you really are.

You’ll feel more confident if you look and smell nice.

Taking time to prep up before meeting the ladies is a habit that you should get into if you’re aiming to become more confident around them. Apart from improving your self-esteem almost instantly because you know that you smell and look good, women also have a soft spot for men who are quite meticulous with the visual and nasal cues that they send out.

Don’t compare yourself to other men.

If you always assume that other men have something you don’t, be it physical or immaterial in nature, chances are this will also reflect in the women you come in contact with. The sad thing is you’ll just end up repelling them instead of creating a connection. Rather than getting frustrated that you’re not as tall as that other guy or as wealthy, keep in mind that you also have a number of positive attributes that make you very special. Just focus on those and you’ll feel a lot more confident.

Be a go-getter.

Confidence is not just something you should exude of when being around the woman you like. You should also demonstrate it during other life situations that call for self-esteem to get the job done. Got lost while driving to a friend’s place? Don’t be afraid to ask for directions. First time grabbing a cup of your favorite brew at a new coffee shop? Smile and say hi to the waiter like you’ve been a customer for years. Taking the girl of your dreams for a night out? Learn these 5 surefire dating tips. Next thing you know, confidence will become second nature to you in no time at all.