Let me ask you a rather direct question… When was the last time you and your girlfriend enjoyed a sensual romp between the sheets? A few minutes ago? A couple of days back? Last month? Or longer? If you think you’re missing out on great sex with your partner, there’s no need to worry just yet. You’ve absolutely come to the right place.
Apart from walking you through the best possible reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t want sex anymore, I’ll also throw in a few surefire tips and pointers that will help turn the tides in your favor – and even make your partner look forward to your next roll in the hay.
Reason #1: Bad hygiene.
Women are very keen on proper hygiene and scoring a round in the sack can greatly depend on how clean you are. Before even thinking about getting intimate with your girlfriend, make sure you’ve already shaved off that wispy stubble, took a shower, applied deodorant, brushed your teeth, cleaned your ears and put on a nice cologne just to get her warmed up. Nothing beats looking and smelling the part when you’re in the mood for love.
Reason #2: Being too aggressive.
Although having the right amount of confidence in the bedroom is a complete turn on for most women, having too much can lead to disaster. They don’t want being pushed around or led to think that they won’t enjoy the experience. Instead of demanding sexual favors and barking orders, prioritize pleasuring your girlfriend first and she’ll come back for more.
Reason #3: Wearing hideous underwear.
Now it’s no secret that men love to see their girlfriend’s wearing sexy lingerie but women can be very similar too. How do you think she feels when she catches a glimpse of you donning an ancient pair of boxer shorts that’s just two washes away from being a full-fledged rag? Make it a point to put on nice underwear when you’re getting laid so you won’t cut your chances of having plenty more sexy times in the near future.
Reason #4: Acting wimpy.
Being a wimp when you’re getting between the sheets with your girlfriend is a total deal breaker. Hearing you ask “does it feel good?” or “do you like that?” over and over again can obliterate her chances of reaching orgasm sooner or later. Instead of asking her verbally if you’re doing alright, pay attention to your girlfriend’s body language. It’s the best indicator if she’s having a great time or not.
Reason #5: Forcing her to do anal sex.
While female pornstars never seem to have any problem with anal sex, your girlfriend might not be that enthusiastic to try it anytime soon. Sneaking your penis in her anus can be interpreted by some women as disrespectful and can easily result to the end of your lovemaking session. Always ask her first if she is open to the idea of doing things “differently.” If your girlfriend says yes, congratulations! If she says no, there’s always a next time.
Reason #6: Coming too quickly.
Sex is ideally an experience where both you and your girlfriend successfully achieve orgasm. While it can be quite tough to reach the big O together, you should see to it that your partner reaches the point of no return first. Premature ejaculation is the biggest sexual turn off of all and you’ll soon be having a dry spell when it comes to getting laid if you don’t learn how to last long in bed.