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Find out the best possible reasons why you’re not getting any from your girlfriend these days.

Let me ask you a rather direct question… When was the last time you and your girlfriend enjoyed a sensual romp between the sheets? A few minutes ago? A couple of days back? Last month? Or longer? If you think you’re missing out on great sex with your partner, there’s no need to worry just yet. You’ve absolutely come to the right place.

Apart from walking you through the best possible reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t want sex anymore, I’ll also throw in a few surefire tips and pointers that will help turn the tides in your favor – and even make your partner look forward to your next roll in the hay.

Reason #1: Bad hygiene.

Women are very keen on proper hygiene and scoring a round in the sack can greatly depend on how clean you are. Before even thinking about getting intimate with your girlfriend, make sure you’ve already shaved off that wispy stubble, took a shower, applied deodorant, brushed your teeth, cleaned your ears and put on a nice cologne just to get her warmed up. Nothing beats looking and smelling the part when you’re in the mood for love.

Reason #2: Being too aggressive.

Although having the right amount of confidence in the bedroom is a complete turn on for most women, having too much can lead to disaster. They don’t want being pushed around or led to think that they won’t enjoy the experience. Instead of demanding sexual favors and barking orders, prioritize pleasuring your girlfriend first and she’ll come back for more.

Reason #3: Wearing hideous underwear.

Now it’s no secret that men love to see their girlfriend’s wearing sexy lingerie but women can be very similar too. How do you think she feels when she catches a glimpse of you donning an ancient pair of boxer shorts that’s just two washes away from being a full-fledged rag? Make it a point to put on nice underwear when you’re getting laid so you won’t cut your chances of having plenty more sexy times in the near future.

Reason #4: Acting wimpy.

Being a wimp when you’re getting between the sheets with your girlfriend is a total deal breaker. Hearing you ask “does it feel good?” or “do you like that?” over and over again can obliterate her chances of reaching orgasm sooner or later. Instead of asking her verbally if you’re doing alright, pay attention to your girlfriend’s body language. It’s the best indicator if she’s having a great time or not.

Reason #5: Forcing her to do anal sex.

While female pornstars never seem to have any problem with anal sex, your girlfriend might not be that enthusiastic to try it anytime soon. Sneaking your penis in her anus can be interpreted by some women as disrespectful and can easily result to the end of your lovemaking session. Always ask her first if she is open to the idea of doing things “differently.” If your girlfriend says yes, congratulations! If she says no, there’s always a next time.

Reason #6: Coming too quickly.

Sex is ideally an experience where both you and your girlfriend successfully achieve orgasm. While it can be quite tough to reach the big O together, you should see to it that your partner reaches the point of no return first. Premature ejaculation is the biggest sexual turn off of all and you’ll soon be having a dry spell when it comes to getting laid if you don’t learn how to last long in bed.

You’re guaranteed to extend your bedroom playtime with these pointers.

If you’re looking to learn a few useful tips and pointers on how to last longer in the bedroom, you’ve definitely come to the right place. Make sure you read on to learn the best-kept secrets on how to deal with premature ejaculation to get the sexual satisfaction you’ve always wanted in no time at all.

A short primer on premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is simply the male disorder of reaching orgasm and ejaculating with neither party getting a lot of satisfaction. While some studies have shown that most men normally have orgasms about three to seven minutes after penetration, some guys last much shorter. Besides causing a lot of distress to both partners, premature ejaculation also leads to guilt, embarrassment and anxiety, which brings about even more sexual issues in the long run.

What you ought to know about lasting longer in bed

Here are 6 simple ways to last longer the next time you’re doing the deed. Forget about costly oral pills and anesthetic creams that are only good for stifling your sensations. You only have to remember the following and you’re sure to become the stud you’ve always dreamed of in a snap:

  • Stop thinking about reaching orgasm. From taking your arousal up a notch to reaching the point of no return, the brain is responsible for each and every sexual response your body experiences when you’re making love. The thing is most men tend to focus on their impending orgasm and ejaculation rather than the whole experience of intercourse, which forces the brain to trigger orgasm sooner than expected. Stop thinking about coming and you’ll last longer.
  • Take penetration breaks. While some men consider sexual intercourse as an intimate journey, most guys think it’s a race to the finish line. This is where foreplay comes in. Apart from lowering your arousal level, which is the primary cause for ejaculating all too quickly, taking time to stimulate your partner’s other erogenous zones like the breasts, neck and behind the ears, temporarily stops penile stimulation, allowing you to return to more sex with more stamina.
  • Embrace the Kegel. Have you ever tried stopping mid-flow when urinating and then carrying on? Although this may sound a bit weird, you’re already doing an exercise called the Kegel that makes the muscles responsible for ejaculatory control tighten. Try doing at least 10 repetitions of this daily and you’ll surely notice a few changes when it comes to your lasting ability the next time you’re having sex.
  • Change positions. Whether you’re a missionary man or an enthusiastic fan of doggy style, make it a point that your sex session is promenade of sexual positions rather than a routine humping session. Besides spicing up you and your partner’s sex life, the slight breaks in penetration also reduce the possibility of premature ejaculation.
  • Practice makes perfect. It isn’t true that masturbation takes the fun out of having sex. Interestingly, it helps you know your sexual limits significantly when reaching orgasm and ejaculation are concerned. The next time you take Mary Palmer out for a date, try to pleasure yourself for a longer time than you usually do. This will really bring about wonders for your future sexual encounters by increasing your endurance.
  • Courtesy counts. The phrase “ladies first” should not be only limited to the opening of doors and public transportation. It must be also observed always whenever you’re making love. While it will make her feel better physically and sexually, you’ll also experience a unique ego boost knowing that you’ve just made your woman reach cloud nine.

Discover the secrets of stimulating the G-spot the right way in no time at all.

The G-spot has always been one of the most mysterious sources of sexual satisfaction for women. While some experts say that it is only an imagined part of the female genitalia, others strongly believe that the G-spot has always been there since the beginning of our species ready to give mind-shattering orgasms when properly stimulated.

Whether or not you’re a believer of the G-spot, make sure you check out the rest of this article to find out more about this hotly debated pleasure button. To make things even better, I’ve also included a few tips and tricks to help you give your partner the best sexual experience just in case you find it quickly.

The G-spot: an introduction

Although there is no proper scientific documentation available that proves its existence, the G-spot is believed to be a spongy yet very rough bean-shaped area in the front wall of the vagina. “Discovered” by Ernst Gräfenberg – hence the “G” in G-spot – almost three decades back, it is supposed to be a highly erogenous zone that can give women heightened levels of sexual arousal and extraordinary orgasms if stimulated correctly.

Locating the G-spot

Regardless of its exact location, some experts say that the G-spot can be reached by inserting a finger (be sure to keep those fingernails trimmed and clean to avoid ruining the mood) about two to three inches inside the vagina until you can feel a muscular wall. Make sure you’re doing this while a woman is sexually excited since it tends to swell up in size due to increased blood flow, significantly reducing the need to hunt for this rather elusive natural orgasm switch. Crook your finger in a “come hither” gesture and if all goes to plan, congratulations! You’ve located the G-spot.

Stimulating the G-spot

G-spot stimulation can be done in a variety of ways depending on how your partner wants to be pleasured or your mood as a couple. Whether you’re planning to use the power of the G-spot in foreplay or intercourse, here are just some of the methods you can use to make this super arousal button work for you in no time at all:

  • Pressure her…into reaching orgasm. While making contact with the G-spot is already a surefire way to make her tingle all over, applying direct pressure to her lower abdomen at the same time can amplify the pleasure scale tenfold. Change up the amount of pressure you’re applying from time to time to take the experience further up a notch.
  • Discover the wonders of having her on top. The cowgirl is perhaps the best position to go for when zeroing in on and stimulating the G-spot. All you need to do is let your partner mount you and help her maneuver forward and back until you hit the sweet spot with your penis. When you do find it, your member gets the rest of the job done while you enjoy the rest of the ride.
  • Make your pelvic muscles dance. There are two great reasons why you should do the Kegel exercise daily: first, it tightens your pelvic muscles to ensure that you’ll have explosive orgasms every time you get under the sheets and second, you can make your penis firmer and perkier all the while making it more flexible, so you won’t have trouble scoring a direct hit on the G-spot with each thrust. Now that we’ve already got all the necessary bases covered, why not take all of these tips for a spin right now?

Learn how to make your date go out with you a second time when you give these pointers a browse.

Nothing beats the first date when it comes to striking fear and panic in the hearts of hopeful men the world over. While taking a girl on a date can be fun and exciting, it can be also quite stressful trying to make a good first impression to make her go out with you a second time.

If you’re looking to take your know-how on first dates up a notch, you’ve come to the right place. I’ll show you a few tricks that will definitely help you establish a romantic connection with the girl you’re out with right off the bat and guarantee a second date without a fuss. Make sure you check out the following tips and pointers to start revolutionizing your dating playbook in no time at all:

Look good to feel good. How you look in the mirror can significantly affect your mood and behavior during a date. Taking time to prep yourself up more than the usual before the event won’t just boost your confidence but will also make you appear more desirable to your date.

Apart from having a good shave and giving your hair and nails a decent trim, make sure you go for clothes that you’re comfortable wearing to avoid looking stiff and awkward. Spritz on a bit of perfume just to wrap things up and you’re good to go.

Location, location, location. Just like in real estate, choosing the right location for your first date is a priority. Go for a place that you think will be enjoyable for the both of you and also allows you to talk comfortably with each other. While this may sound rather odd, avoid taking her to dinner in a fancy restaurant since it would turn out more to be an interview instead of a date.

Movies are out of the list as well since you won’t be able to get to know her better while sitting through the majority of your time in silence. Take her to the park, a museum or someplace else where the view is fantastic and you’re sure to hit it right off then and there.

Be a gentleman. Keep in mind that sweating out on the little things that you do (or don’t do) for your date can be a crucial factor on how it all turns out in the end. Remember to keep doors open for her and hold out your date’s chair to help her sit comfortably. Don’t forget to give her sincere compliments about the things she obviously took time and effort with like her hair and the clothes she’s wearing.

Make her feel like a princess right from the moment you pick her up to the time you walk her right to her door and you’re sure to be invited in for a nightcap – or even something more intimate – in a pinch.

Being a great listener is an advantage. Women have a soft spot for men who know how to listen to what they are saying and actively ask questions during a conversation. You don’t have to talk about serious stuff, too. Make it a point to go for topics that are fun and interesting.

Steer clear from subjects that you don’t know about or those that can potentially put you on the hot seat like politics, religion or the current economic situation in Mogadishu. Pro-tip: never interrupt your date when she’s sharing personal things or else she might see it as something rude and then it’s game over.

Take charge the whole time…even after the date. Showing the girl you’re out with how confident and smart you are during your date instead of just talking about it is definitely an instant turn on. Offer to pay for everything and never send out even the slightest gesture that you’d like to split the bill.

While there might be a few things that won’t go as planned, keeping your first date well-organized while being very enjoyable at the same time certainly earns you a second one. Ditch the 3-day rule, too. Tell your date how much you’ve enjoyed her company on your way home and don’t hesitate to say that you’d like to see her again. Chances are you’ll go a long way buddy.