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The best way to turn a woman on is probably not what you think

Here’s a very powerful way to turn a woman on and get her lusting for you fast…

If you’ve ever been with a woman who doesn’t seem interested in sex and found yourself wondering “what the heck am I supposed to do to turn her on?!” then you’ll find this really useful.

And like most solutions when it comes to sex…

It all comes down to understanding how SHE works.

Because understanding what turns a guy on is simple…

All a woman has to do is act sexual and grab our penis.

But women are different.

And too often as men we make the mistake of assuming that they’re just like us.

So the bottom line is that if you want to know how to turn a woman on, you’re going to have to adopt a completely different strategy.

And I’m going to give you one AMAZING strategy for turning a woman on right now.

And that strategy is…

PRESENSE.

No… Not presents!

PRESENSE.

Women get turned on when you’re really present with them.

When you’re totally in the moment and entirely focused on them.

This means…

NOT looking at the TV out of the corner of your eye

NOT worrying about what’s happening at work

NOT thinking about someone else

NOT getting frustrated at how hard your woman is to turn on at the moment

You get the idea.

Your entire focus should be on her.

And when you genuinely and entirely focus on her… She’ll know it.

She’ll recognize it in your eye contact.

She’ll notice that all your attention is on her.

And now all you need to do to turn her on is step up the physical intimacy slowly.

Stop everything and just embrace her.

Stroke her hair as you gaze into her eyes.

Experience a deep passionate kiss where all you’re focussing on is the touch of her lips.

All these things will come naturally when you forget everything and just embrace the present moment and focus on her.

And she’ll be so turned on she won’t know what hit her.

Of course, when things DO start heating up you’ll want to be sure you can last long enough in bed and make the most of the opportunity.

So to make sure you do last long enough check out this article now on how to Stop Premature Ejaculation.

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How you breathe during sex can have a DRAMATIC effect on how long you last.  Be sure to follow these steps to avoid leaving your woman disappointed…

Now to understand how your breathing can help you last long in bed you’ve got to realize that one of the biggest causes of premature ejaculation is too much tension in body.

Orgasms are synonymous with tension.

In other words if there’s tension present in the body, then the chances are that you’re going to orgasm pretty soon.

This is because all an orgasm really is is a release of tension.

You may have noticed on climax that as you ejaculate your whole body relaxes.

The bottom line is that 90% of the time for an orgasm to happen there has to be tension present.

Now most guys don’t even realize the link between tension and orgasm so they do nothing to eliminate tension in their body.

But since you now know about the link you can play it smarter than that…

Because if you want to last longer in bed then you’re going to have to eliminate tension in your body.

And this is where breathing technique comes in.

You see, the instinctive way to breathe during sex is with short shallow breaths.

Unfortunately all this does is increase tension in the body.

Now if you want to last longer in bed by reducing tension all you need to do is change this unconscious breathing pattern.

So the next time you have sex take the time to focus on your breathing and be sure to slow it down.

Focus on slowing your breathing as much as possible.

You’ll be amazed at just how much of an effect slow deep breathing has on your ability to last longer.

And if you want to add some other techniques to last EVEN longer in bed then check out this article on how to last long in bed.

elow I want to share with you a highly effective thrusting technique to help stop premature ejaculation…

This thrusting technique I’m going to explain to you will probably go against what you instinctively do during sex so pay close attention and be prepared to work at it for the first few times you try using it.

OK, so this thrusting technique works as follows.

After you’re done with foreplay and you go to start having sex take things VERY slowly.

When you finally enter you woman, instead of doing the common “insert all the way because you’re so excited”, enter only half an inch.

Enter just the tip of your penis inside her.

And then pull out.

Slowly thrust in and out going no deeper than half an inch.

What you’ll probably find is your woman getting incredibly excited with what you’re doing and she’ll want for you to enter the whole thing…

Avoid the temptation of doing so.

Take your time to increase the depth of your thrusting very gradually.

If you’re doing this for the first time the speed at which you increase depth should feel frustratingly slow.

Now the reason this works well for lasting longer in bed is because by going very slow at the start of sex you give your penis a chance to get used to feeling of your woman’s vagina.

In a way you’re desensitizing your penis to the overwhelming pleasure of the vagina.

After you’ve effectively desensitized your penis from a few minutes of slow thrusting you’ll find it a lot easier to thrust faster and deeper without the need to orgasm instantly.

Overall it’s a very effective technique and because of its nature it also incorporates a lot of teasing so your woman gets a lot out of it too.

Now if you’ve found this thrusting technique useful then you’ll want to check out my other thrusting techniques for lasting longer in bed.  Check them out now in this article on premature ejaculation treatment.

And drop me a comment below too… I’d really appreciate it.

If you don’t know where the clitoris is… Or worse yet, you don’t know what it is… then let me enlighten you…

The clitoris is part of a woman’s that is very sensitive and able to create intense pleasure.

In fact it has the same amount of nerve endings as the head of man’s penis, but it’s only a fraction of the size.

If you want to please a girl in bed, then it’s an absolutely must that you know where to find it and how to pleasure it…

So first up – Where to find it…

The clitoris is found above the entrance to the vagina just underneath where the outer lips of the vagina meet at the top.

Often to get to it you’ll have to go feel just underneath where the lips meet.

Now typically the clitoris is pretty small – about the size of a small bean, but this varies greatly from woman to woman.

Some women have a large clitoris that is easy to find and very visible, but for other women it is so small that you can only find it by knowing where it is rather than spotting it or feeling it out.

The size of a woman’s clitoris also varies depending on how aroused she is.  Typically the clitoris will swell in size as a woman becomes more aroused, which is convenient for you, because that makes it easier to find.

Now if the above description isn’t enough for you you can always use the wonderful power of the web to check out some pictures for more detail (Wikipedia’s Clitoris section is a good place to start).

So now that you know where it is – What do you do with it…

Well explaining in full could make this a rather long article, so for now just try this…

After taking your time with foreplay and getting your woman very aroused start by lightly stroking the clitoris.  If she’s not lubricated already then either go back to some more foreplay or use an artificial lubrication like Astroglide.

Remember the clitoris is a very sensitive part of a woman’s body so stimulation without lubrication can be painful to her.

From your light stroking develop slowly into more intense stimulation.  Feel free to experiment with different types, but a great place to start is with using a circular motion.

And while you’re trying out different types of stimulation pay close attention to your woman’s reactions until you find a type of stimulation that she really likes… At which point just stick with what you’re doing until she reaches orgasm.

This should have her more than warmed up for sex, so be sure you don’t disappoint in that department by having strong PC Muscles.  Click the following link to find out more about how they can help you perform better in bed… http://howtolastlonginbed.com/pc-muscle-exercises-3-essential-exercises-for-men/

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