December 2010 Archives

Give your woman something extra this year

Why not use this holiday season as an excuse to treat your woman to the best orgasm of her life?  Here’s how…

These holidays are all about giving.

So the theme of this particular orgasm will be giving to your woman.

And this doesn’t just been sex.

It means giving her everything else too.

And this is a HUGE secret to giving a woman incredible orgasms.

Because women work totally different from us men.

For a man what happens during his day really doesn’t make much difference – if the pleasure he gets during sex is good then he will have a great orgasm.

But for a woman… EVERYTHING matters.

That means how her day went, how you treated her, how loved or appreciated she felt, how attracted to you she felt.

This all adds up.

And if you stack enough of these good things up during the day, then when it finally comes to sex… It takes little effort to give her an incredible orgasm, because she’s ready for it and WANTS to experience it with you.

So use this holiday season as an excuse to give to your woman.

Give more than you normally would.

Push yourself and surprise your woman.

Whether this means getting her an extra gift or surprising her with a massage, just do something she doesn’t normally expect from you.

And treat her several times.

Stack up the treats.

With her having this much fun and feeling appreciated this much, having fun in the bedroom will be a piece of cake.

And when it does finally come to sex, be sure you’re armed and ready to last all night by using my special 3 step method in this article on how to last longer in bed.

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Women Love A Man Who Can Show He's Passionate In The Right Way

Women go crazy for a man that knows how to express himself in bed in the right way.  So here’s some tips on how to show passion in a way that dramatically boosts attractiveness.

Showing passion is really just a combination of practice and following some simple do’s and don’ts.

And if you do do it right you can unlock some POWERFUL attraction in a woman (just check out this article by a woman going on and on about passionate men to see what I mean).

First up, don’t expect to pull off the perfect demonstration of passion first time.

If you’re someone who always likes to hide what he’s feeling and gets uncomfortable at the idea of fully expressing yourself, especially in bed, then small steps is the key.

Going all out on your first attempt, when in the past you’ve always been the quite type in bed, could leave the woman you’re with thinking you’ve just taken some crazy pills.

So build up to it and follow these simple steps…

The do’s of passionate love making

  • Talk to your woman during sex
  • Tell her how much she turns you
  • Make sounds of satisfaction during sex
  • Encourage her to show signs of passion
  • Make her feel comfortable by talking positively about anything you want her to express

The don’ts of passionate love making

  • Don’t do anything that makes you incredibly uncomfortable (small steps remember)
  • Don’t do anything you “think” you should be doing but isn’t natural to you (just be a more passionate version of yourself)
  • Don’t assume that being passionate means being like the men you see in porn

The truth is that’s there’s no real secret to being passionate in the bedroom, it’s really just a case of recognizing within yourself that it’s OK to show passion and emotion in bed and that you don’t have to buy in to this old fashioned belief that as the man you have to be quiet and controlled.

So now that you know how to be more passionate in bed check out this article called Last Longer In Bed Naturally – it’s an incredibly effective way of using what you’ve learned here to last longer.

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Foreplay Doesn't Have To Just Happen In The Bedroom

Not a fan of foreplay? Here’s a great method to use so you don’t have to spend the first 30 minutes under the sheets waiting for sex…

Now if you’re a guy who doesn’t really enjoy foreplay that much (or at least loves sex 1000x more than foreplay) then that’s OK.

But one fact you will have to face is that turning on a woman doesn’t happen instantly.

Men can be aroused in a matter of seconds, but for women this just isn’t the case.

So the trick here is to be wise about HOW and WHEN you arouse your women.

You see, the “old-school” thinking behind foreplay is that when you’re in bed with a woman you need to start turning her on, therefore you engage in foreplay.

And if you subscribe to this way of thinking then unfortunately foreplay in bed is pretty much unavoidable, because like I said earlier women need at least some time to be turned on.

Now if as soon as you get into bed you want to start having sex then you’re going to need a different approach.

And this is what I recommend…

Perform foreplay THROUGHOUT THE DAY.

Whenever you interact with your woman during the day, whether it be via text, phone, e-mail or in person – start turning her on.

Be sexual.

And just like you would in foreplay slowly raise the intensity and intimacy of the stimulation.

So start by talking about stroking her hair and kissing her neck first, and then later move on to talking about her more intimate areas and what you’re going to do to them.

If you sprinkle this kind of interaction throughout the day with your woman, then by the time it comes to sex she will so horny you won’t believe it.

Remember a woman’s mind is INCREDIBLY active and she’ll be fantasising all day about you if you stimulate her well with your conversation.

And what you’ll find is that all this conversation IS YOUR FOREPLAY.

The purpose of foreplay is to turn a woman on and to prepare her for sex… And this is exactly what you’re doing by communicating with her sexually and teasing her all day long.

So when you finally meet in bed she’ll be so horny that you won’t need the “traditional” foreplay before having sex… She’ll be ready for it.

Seriously… The power of this approach when done right is AMAZING.

And, if you so wish, eliminates the need for foreplay in the bedroom.

(Of course, if you do decide to add some “traditional” foreplay then the results will be even more powerful)

So now you know how to skip foreplay you better be sure you can last long in bed!  Check out this article on Premature Ejaculation to make sure you avoid it from happening.