November 2010 Archives

One of the single biggest reasons why men fail to end their premature ejaculation is because they give up too easily when learning how to end it. Here are a few tips on how to make sure you never make that mistake…

Now before I go any further, let me just say that it IS possible to learn how to last longer VERY quickly.

Some men pick up strategies and within days are able to last significantly longer.

But the fact is that everyone is different.

Some people will naturally take longer before they make the change successfully.

Sometimes men take longer to make the change because they either don’t know the strategies for lasting longer or don’t perform them correctly.

Other times it’s that men just don’t have enough drive… They kinda want to learn to last longer, but it’s not an absolute MUST for them, therefore they don’t get over the even the smallest of hurdles like trying out a new position or thrusting technique in bed.

For example in this Interview With Matti P you hear about a guy who’s wife CHEATED because he sucked so much in bed.  The fact is he could have done a million things to make his sex life better, but he just didn’t have the drive until a disaster like that happened.

The bottom line is if you’re not one of the lucky men who get instant results then here’s what you need to do…

The clue is in the title…

Never give up.

If you had a child that was taking longer than expected to learn how to walk would you give up on him / her?

NO WAY.

You would encourage the kid to keep going until they learned how to walk, no matter how long it took.

You’ve got to have the same attitude when it comes to learning to last longer in bed…

Because the fact is you never know when your big breakthrough is just around the corner.

You could be just a few more attempts away from being able to last 10 minutes longer in bed (or whatever your target is), but if you give up, then you would never have make the discovery.

So if you’re feeling low on motivation you’ve got to rekindle your drive.

You’ve got to remind yourself of all the reasons WHY you want to learn to last longer in bed first place.

When you start focussing on the WHY you’ll find it a lot easier to keep moving forward.

So if you’re feeling excited and ready to move forward towards being able to last longer in bed then check out this article on Kegels For Men.  It’ll teach you the easy to follow steps to ending premature ejaculation for good.

I’ve just come across what is probably THE easiest sex tip ever to apply.  Want to know what it is?…

Couple being intimate

This guy obviously knows a few sex tips

So the sex tip I’m talking about is this…

Hold your partners hands while having sex.

You don’t have to do it for the whole time you have sex, but if you do it for a few minutes you’ll find that it really improves the intimacy of sex…

Which, by the way, women LOVE.

Now, to be honest, I can’t take credit for this sex tip.  I discovered it while reading this article called Sex Tips: A Handy Way to Increase Intimacy.

But how easy is that?

Now you might be thinking…  “Jack, but this is hardly going to help me become the best lover she has ever had overnight…”

And my response would be…

You’re right.

This ALONE will not transform your love life overnight.

But what really leads to massive change in life and getting the BIG goals we want (like becoming an extraordinary lover or lasting over 30 minutes in bed)…

Is the grouping of MANY small changes.

Sure, this sex tip in itself won’t make you into a truly unforgettable lover, but what if you learned 10 different sex tips like this one and applied ALL OF THEM in one love making session.

Now my betting is that would make one HELL of a difference.

So keep up the learning, because it’s the accumulation of many small distinctions that helps you breakthrough to achieve the massive goals you want.

Oh, and here’s another VERY important sex tip you need to know, both if you want to be a better lover and last longer in bed…

It’s how to perform something known as Kegels For Men. Check it out now.

There are a lot of misconceptions and myths about sex floating around in the world and here’s how to avoid succumbing to them…

Now what inspired this blog post was an article I just read called 9 Sex ‘Rules’ To Break Tonight.

And the fact is that as we grow up and learn more about sex we tend to pick up and believe things about sex that are just plain wrong.

women keeping quiet

The truth about sex is often hard to figure out

And when we let these misconceptions and myths about sex run our sex lives they can cause some serious damage…

We can end up not enjoying sex or not being able to make our partner happy just because we have a false belief that doing a certain thing is wrong.

Let me give you a specific example…

One of the 9 sex myths featured in the article I mentioned was “porn is the enemy”.

Now I have mentioned in the past that I think when men copy the actions of male porn stars it doesn’t help their sex life.

But just watching it on the other hand I don’t personally think is a bad thing.

Especially if you do it as a couple during sex to make things more interesting.

In fact it’s a great way to add some variety and some excitement to the bedroom.

And most women will probably enjoy it if it’s presented to them in the right way.

The bottom line of what I’m trying to get across is to challenge your assumptions about sex.

Write down some of the beliefs you have about sex and take a moment to think about where they came from and if they’re really helping support you in having an incredible sex life.

It’ll make a world of difference.

But before you go watching a ton of porn during sex, take a moment to read this article on how to Prevent Premature Ejaculation, because it’ll give you some important warnings of how to NOT let porn influence you in a negative way.

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If you don’t already understand the impact of the way you masturbate on how long you last then you’ll want to watch this free video…

Because the fact is that how you masturbate can have a DRAMATIC effect on how long you last in bed.  And if you DON’T do what I highly recommend, then no matter how many other tricks, techniques or sex position you learn, premature ejaculation could be with you for life.

So check out this short video I just posted to youtube…