A recent article I read inspired me to write this post. For anyone thinking of dabbling in sex with an ex here’s my take on the essential precautions you must take…
The first thing I’d recommend if you’re considering “rekindling the flame” with an ex is to read this article called 5 Tips for Sex with the Ex.
It’s a great article, and it’s what inspired me to write this post.
The thing that struck me while reading it was that I noticed an underlying theme that I’ve come across many times before when it comes to dating, relationships, sex, etc.
And that underlying theme is to just take things easy.
Play it cool.
Don’t get overexcited and stress too much too soon.
Don’t make mountains out of molehills.
For example in the article I was just talking about the second tip is “Sex does not equal love”.
What this means is if you go back to have sex with an ex, don’t instantly assume that you’ve suddenly fallen in love again and now you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together.
This is the exact OPPOSITE of playing it cool.
If you were to react like that then you’d probably push your ex away FAST.
Whereas if you play it cool then you probably wouldn’t scare them away and then if you wanted to you could always slowly develop your relationship to take things more seriously again if you wanted to.
Although this is a blog mainly focussed on helping men last longer in bed, I wanted to talk about this because every little thing you do spills over to other areas of your life.
Which means that if you don’t play it cool when you go to have sex with your ex then the chances are that you don’t play it cool when you have sex full stop.
And if you don’t play it cool when you have sex then you’re much more likely to experience premature ejaculation, because being tense and nervous are MASSIVE triggers for premature ejaculation.
The bottom line is play it cool in your relationships and sex, at least at the start (because you can always get more intense later on), and you will be rewarded.
And if you’re looking for some more “tangible” tips for lasting longer in bed, in other words, actual strategies and techniques you can use then you’ll want to check out this article on Premature Ejaculation Cures.